Okay I was at the a swimming pool the other day and this guy that i really like was there!!!!So we start talkin and flirtin with each other. Well...when i get ready to leave he asked for a kiss and i gave him one. At school the next day we have a class together and he acted like there was nothing between us!!!! I was so heartbroken and i still have to see him everyday wat can i do?????
2007-01-27 14:44:35 · 23 answers · asked by volleyballgurl10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him. If he really likes you then he wouldn't ignore you just like that. Or maybe he's just shy. I would say forget ablout him and go out with other guys. I got played a lot before too so I know how your'e feeling. Stick with your friends through all and stay strong.
2007-01-27 14:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by illlhsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so fact no. 1 u were taken advantage of..............i think he thought u were too easy so he's lost interest cause for the guyz the chase is more important....so if u really want him back u gotta give him the cold treatment too......ignore him and u 2 begin to pretend that nothing's ever happened....u gotta c him everyday so it's easier for u to make him feel like u r ignoring him or u also din't like whtever happened between u n him.......secondly maybe for u the kiss was a big deal but maybe for him it was something he would do on a regular basis with any girl who would flirt with him.........and last of all ask yourself do u really want the jerk back in your life.....i mean there are so many other guys who will like u for who u r and not ignore u and treat u right so leave the looser cause he does not value u in the way u should be valued and ,ove on and u never know u may find someone who truly deserves u n knows ur worth.....all the best
2007-01-28 00:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait another day or two. What happened after the kiss? Did you enjoy it? Did he? If there were mix feelings right after then that may be a cause to his backing off. Do you hang out with the same people? If not, maybe that has something to do with it. I would say the pool would be the better place to see his reaction. I mean guys can be harsh when their friends find a girl, so maybe he is just playing it safe for now. Give him a chance, before you make up your mind.
2007-01-27 22:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by taylorvoltaire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably a playuh, and just messing around with your head. Or, he might be embarassed to have other people see him hanging around with you at school. Or, he might just be so embarassed and scared and he doesn't know how to react because he doesn't know how you feel (although I doubt it, since he told you to give him a kiss, he's probably not the shy or confused type of guy). Since there are so many possibilities, hon, just go and ask him!
2007-01-27 22:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
See dear..I don't know how old are you. But it seems like that you're still doing your schooling. Now I come to the point directly..truth is always bitter so please try to accept... The guy has used you..nothing more then that.
Secondly, its the time to concentrate on your studies. I do respect your feeling but see don't waste the time...becuase time never comes back. You can find the better life partner later on. !! But first STUDIES.....!!
If you, feel bad..then I'm sorry..!! Regards, Sumit
2007-01-28 03:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sumit M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was just using you. Maybe to be sure, you tell him your feelings towards him and ask him for his number. If he doesn't feel that way about you, then think of him as just a jerk and move on. You don't deserve a guy like him and there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-27 23:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would not want to tell and spread this thing or not want to give even a single doubt to others that u are in love coz u are in school right now
grow up then u'll realise what the world is
2007-01-28 06:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by ziya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ingore the jerk and act like you have no idea that he exists
he will get piss off by this and face you with it, if he does like you and make sure he does around people that you both hang out with that way you know he is not playing you as a joke
2007-01-27 22:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Goddess Eliana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u gave too much for the first time.
Just don't repent. You are not at loss. You got fun outta it.
If the bugger is smart-head he will come bk.
Otherwise he simply doesn't deserves you.
2007-01-28 00:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go up to this guy and be like hey what is you deal i mean we kiss and the next day you act like nothing hap pend b/c i though we had some thing/ tell him what your heart is telling you
2007-01-28 00:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by little devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋