is anxious to meet your parents and you two are not in a serious relationship yet?
2007-01-27 14:43:25 · 18 answers · asked by Lvgrl23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's just curious to see where you come from and what your childhood was like. He might just be trying to get to know you better.
2007-01-27 18:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few possibilities. Maybe he feels like your relationship is more serious than you obviously do. Maybe he wants to see if you like him enough to introduce him. Maybe he wants to find out more about you by meeting your family. He might just be the kind of guy who is close to his own family and thinks it's important to know yours, because he's interested in you. It doesn't have to mean he's rushing things, because he may just think of meeting his gf's family as normal. I wouldn't read anything bad into it. But since you seem to think it's odd, maybe you could just ask him why he wants to meet them and see what he says. I'm betting that it won't be that big of a deal once he explains. Good luck. :)
2007-01-27 22:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is trying to push your relationship into being serious before you've had the opportunity to really get to know him or he's attempting to impress you so that you're caught up in a moment and neglect to realize that you don't really know him or a way to see what you feel about him...Either way it's a manipulation tactic and a red flag in my opinion. He's not ready to marry you, you just met!
If you're still interested let him know that you would like to take things slow and really get to know him before you introduce him to your parents, simple. But if he's the aggressive/manipulative type he will make an accusation like..oh, I guess you don't really like me if... Don't fall for it.
You're parents aren't interested in meeting some random dude off the street. They want you to meet someone you actually have a bond with, a friendship, something in common..It's not about what he wants right now but what you need to experience with him to know if he's meant to be in your life. Move at a pace where you feel comfortable.
2007-01-27 22:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm....That;s a hard question. Even though it may not seem like a serious relationship but he might like you very much. If he does he gets really nervous about meeting ur parents because ur parents might not agree with u guys relationship. Talk it through with him. You have to understand his feelings. So have a long talk with him and if he's ready then meet ur parents!
I hope it helped.:D
2007-01-27 22:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by -BaByLiCiOuS- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time a guy wants to meet your parents is if he wants to get serious. He wants to see where you come from and see how your parents take to him.
2007-01-27 22:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to meet your parents to see if he's really into you. If you don't come from a good family, maybe he'll think different of you. But if he likes your family, he might be more interested in taking your relationship to the next level.
2007-01-27 22:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by DivaHawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might want to see what your gonna look like in 10 yrs or so..!! Also families are the ones who like to slip out some personal info without even meaning to. So he'll get a feel for what he's in for..!!
2007-01-27 22:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by wldsxychild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is rushing things too fast. This guy is looking to settle down and quickly. You should be wary of him and se if this is what you want. if not then you need to slow things down. Let him know that you need to know him better before you can introdue him to your parents. After anyone you bring to them to meet is a reflection on you and you need to make sure this is the right person for introducing.
2007-01-27 22:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Johnathan L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to get more serious, He wants you to make the first move though, hes to shy. Its your choice, dont feel pressured to let him meet your family.
2007-01-27 22:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Alley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's rushing things. Tell him that he's moving alittle faster than your comftorable with, and you should get to know eachother better before he meets your parents.
2007-01-27 22:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋