Ok, so i'm only 15, and i know this is hard to understand, But i need to ask it now. Anyways i've been dateing this guy for only 8 days and i've never liked a guy in my life. Last summer i even thought i was a lesbian, but i've been chillen with this guy for about am onth and liked him off and on. And last Saturday we started dateing. And when i'm around him i just want to hug him and kiss him and never let him go. And when i leave him i'm so sad but yet happy i got to see him. I can get in front of him lookin so ugly and he still looks at me like i'm the best thing ever. When we kiss he looks me in the eyes and smiles. I want to say i love him but i'm not for shur how he will respond. I feel that i know what love is now that i'm with him but i am so scared to beleave it. I know it's possible cause my mom has been with my dad since she was 14 and he was 16 and she got pregnant at 16 and he was 18 and they got married and they have been together for 16 years. Tell me if i should. please
2007-01-27 14:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by Miss.Marasi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i do agree with what a few of you said, like about waitng a month and just a teeneage crush and finding out who i really am, but ive done that i've been through so many diffrent stages just over a year. And tierd of it and i like to just be myself. But anouther thing is he is also 18. And we have been thourhg so much in just 8 days like hius aunt told me to leave him alone and that i'll get him trouble cause im so young and he been to jail already. my dad a cop and has done a backround search on him and it just so happens his step grandfather works with my dad and he dosnt rally like him cause hes gone to jail and stuff but like my dad said he would give him a chance cause when he met him he though he was nice guy. but still.
2007-01-27 14:55:18 · update #1
only you can tell if it is true love. i would recomend waiting, beacuse you will change so much. but like i said, noone can tell you when it is right. you will just know.
2007-01-27 14:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by generalgrievous16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm scared for you.
What you're feeling is an overwhelming, all-encompassing attachment, love, a teenage crush, one that will take over your life.
I've felt the same thing, only a long time ago.
I was so happy around my boyfriend, too.
When he dumped me for another girl, I wanted to die.
Talk to your mom! She was there, she knows what you're feeling. She can tell you better than anyone here.
Talk to your mom. That's what moms are for.
I read your details. There's a problem.
Most places, if the guy is more than two years older than the girl, and the girl is a minor, it's considered to be statutory rape IF you two have sex. Not that you're planning on that, but guys his age are always planning on it. Maybe since he's met your dad, and your dad is a cop, he'll have second thoughts about it. You didn't mention why he's been to jail already.You sound so much like I was at your age! Please be careful.
2007-01-27 14:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably dont want to hear this but life is too short to worry about dating at your age. They only lead to heart ache and disappointment. There is no way you can have a serious relationship with someone at 15. True you may really know what your feeling, cause teenagers are more mature than they used to be, but dont get serious with anyone, live your life to the fullest, go to school, finish school, accomplish some things in your life, learn who you are, see the world, there soooo much more to life than "being in love". Your going to do what you want but trust me, I wouldnt worry about love right now.
2007-01-27 14:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by childrenrthefuture97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I were in love with my guy for practically 8 years it is the longest I have loved anybody,on the same time after we cut up for a three hundred and sixty 5 days I under no circumstances had thoughts for anybody like I did for him.
2016-10-16 05:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pay close attention to what others have done because that is their life and you're leading your own right now.
If you walk a straight line you wont' have a Missed Opportunity when it comes thy way! Your the BIG Q
2007-01-27 14:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... maybe wait at least a month, so you don't freak him out. but give lots of hints about how much you like him and tell him you love him but not directy. for example be like "whenever im with you i feel so perfect. i love that so much. i don't ever want this moment to end" he'll get the idea;)
2007-01-27 14:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait for 2-3 years.
2007-01-27 14:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your heart feels that you really love someone then tell them before you loose the chance!! Good luck!
2007-01-27 14:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Katy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right you will know it.
good Luck
2007-01-27 14:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your heart & go with what your heart tells yo to say & do.
2007-01-27 14:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by ChocoLatte092 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋