ok so my ex-boyfriend of 6 monthes came up to me at my locker and said, " i have to talk to you." we havent talked at all since we broke up b/c it was a really bad break up, and we still loved eachother. there was this big conspiracy of the leak of my giving him a b.j. but thats been over for more than a month. i dont know what this means. please help, any ideas? he ALWAYS hyas a girfriend, and he hasn't had one since we broke up. we dated for 3 monthes, and were inseperable [sp?] at the time. i miss him so much, and i know that its been a long time, but do any of you have any idea what he wants to talk to me about?
2007-01-27 14:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows you was good to him and have not found anyone to take your place and probably wants you back.
2007-01-27 14:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very careful as this is a time in your life in which the decisions you make will affect your relationships far into the future.
The only way you will know what he wants to talk about is by affording him the opportunity to tell you. But you must be careful in case you are getting set up for something painful. Suggest that he meet you in a public place and maybe have some of your friends "conveniently" close by (but not interfering).
If you REALLY both love each other, don't let anyone else get in the way; but DO NOT allow yourself to mold only to HIS needs. You will be setting yourself up for a lifetime of NO respect.
Remember that men don't experience love in the same way as a woman. Sex and love are two very separate things for them. DON'T give it away!! Treat it as a precious gift worthy of only someone who TRULY loves you. Be the girl that gets to meet his mother. In order to do that you must earn his respect....in order to do THAT you must respect yourself!!!
You ARE special!!
Relationships are very hard, especially at your age. Unfortunately, they don't get much easier in this world as you age either, but always be true to yourself and you can save yourself a lot of heartache.
I sincerely hope it works out as you hope.
God Bless you.
2007-01-27 22:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to talk about you 2 maybe getting back together, and if im right think twice before you say yes or no because the fact of him always having a girlfreind says hes not used to being alone and until he figures that out he wont be able to fully give himself to you. belive me im alot like him, im usually dating someone and now im almost always confused and i hurt the ones i love because i cant figure out if i love them or just being with them. give him time before getting back together, but wait til he talks to you til you start jumping to conclusions. hope everything works out.
2007-01-27 22:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are really possibly a million reasons why he would want to talk to you. Just stop trying to guess, and actually let him talk to you.
2007-01-27 22:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out.
Good Luck
2007-01-27 22:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet he wants you back... but how about you tlk to him to c & find out? Good Luck!! :)
2007-01-27 22:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by ChocoLatte092 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋