We have been together 6 years and shes wanting to go out with her friends more. We still are in love but we never were apart so i am wondering what is the norm. 2 - 3 days a week we hang out and we talk maybe an hour or two a day. Make me feel better. How often is enough and what is too much.
2007-01-27 14:36:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im single!!! I use to see my boyfriend every day and loved it though!
2007-01-27 14:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably doing better than a lot of married people, so don't worry for now. Sometimes a person just needs a little space and spending some time with friends is a good thing - - - - as long as she is spending time with other women and not men. If I were you, I'd also make an effort to spend some time with friends. You shouldn't be so wrapped up in each other that you don't socialize that much with others. Keep the lines of communication open with your girlfriend. With a 6-year relationship, you should be solid enough to trust each other pretty well.
2007-01-27 14:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I have been with my bf for 10 years, and I see him every day and we hang out all the time. But he needs his space (way more than I need mine) and it would be wrong of me to not let him have some time to himself.
Just realize that everyone has different needs, and as long as nobody's fooling around or getting jealous or bitter or resentful, it is all good. Just find something that YOU like to do while she is out with her friends. Maybe a hoby or make some friends of your own. I know it's not the same - I am right there with you, but it will make you feel a lot better, and it will make the time you spend together that much more special. :)
2007-01-27 14:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see each other about 3 times a week unless she says other wise it's better to see each other less than to much. Talking on the phone I'd say about an hour or it depends on what your talking about.
2007-01-27 14:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by lonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially were 40 5 and 40 six, and his married. That difficulty one, and a pair of we see one yet another each and every ninety days that's cool with me too. He lives in florida and that i stay in ohio. we've been relationship for 2 years and he's about to get the boots in august because i advised. Him that i do not share and that i advised him this been earlier we were given contain with one yet another. yet adult males imagine that fat meat aint greases and that i'll coach him that's authentic with this woman.
2016-12-03 03:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by santella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you said sounds about right. when the relationship is new people tend to want to see thier bf/gf every day. seems like things are going ok for you
2007-01-27 14:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't hang out with my boyfriend nearly as much as i'd like, but i guess that's life. i think that the timespan that you spend with your mate is plenty, esp. b/c you two have been together for so long.
2007-01-27 14:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by shibabigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whenever you want im single soo I don't have to worry bout that sorry!!!!!
2007-01-27 14:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by ashley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋