ok i was on a first date with this girl, we met up at a club for a few drinks and cocktails,she comes dress in a cocktail dress, she looked like she went out of her way to look really nice, a few drinks later where having a great time,so i thought. Time came to go, she had to get up early, i walking here home and we start talking about embarrassing moments, sercrets, then she tell me the she dated this guy i work with, were good mates, but i had no idea, she seems to still have feeling for him, but i know he doesn't he's chasing someone els, what do i do
2007-01-27 14:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay for a while longer, but if she is OBSESSED with this guy still. i think you should leave
2007-01-27 14:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you had both been drinking. Of course she's going to say something she shouldn't.
Second. Do you like her?
You know her ex, therefore you have a real advantage. If you are good friends, you can get all the good info on her. What she likes/dislikes, wants to do on a date, etc...
You now know a lot more than most guys do at the beginning.
As for her feeling for your friend, when she sees how well you treat her and that he has another already, she's probably going to change her mind about him really fast.
2007-01-27 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it another go, depending on how you feel.
My first impression is that she does not know what to say and she just used her last point of reference (her last boyfriend).
On the other hand she could be fixated on him and your the rebound fellow.
Either way, don't rush into anything.
Be kind as she just may need some space.
good luck
2007-01-27 14:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She still hasn't gotten over him, and she might have used you to find out about him. Don't tell her anything, because you will end up in the middle of this drama, and you might lose your friend/her ex if you do. Just walk away slowly. Find someone better.
2007-01-27 14:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by redangus22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to see how you stacked against her ex.
2007-01-27 14:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she not over him and u r rebound
2007-01-27 14:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋