different likes and prefs,and thats is all ok,what im asking is,would you want a woman to be intrested in you and change who she is to be with you,or be herself, and if herself,is who she really wants to be is blunt,up front,not abusive or loud mouth,but im clear on what i like and dont like with out offending any one,i dress how i feel most comfortable , i am me and i cant and do not want to any one else,so is this a turn off to me,or would they rather have a fake person?
2007-01-27 14:25:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would rather have someone who is honest, individual and her own person with her own interests and life. Most guys I know think the same.
But, just like anyone, male or female, if one has personal qualities which make them unattractive to others, it is ultimately up to that person to decide if they want to wait for someone who can put up with that quality. If not, anyone can change a behavior, a trait or an unflattering characteristic: if they want to. Changing oneself for the better (even if it is to improve your social set) is not being phony; its becoming a newer, different self.
Change, chosen or not, is inevitable.
Peace
2007-01-27 14:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by zingis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If looking for a long term relationship you and him may have to compromises on things but not to the point where you feel uncomfortable,(not yourself).
A wise woman ( my mom) told me that people change and that relationships should be asses ed every 3 to 4 years, if you love the other person you adapt if not you leave.
A man that truly loves you, loves you for you and would not change you at all
2007-01-27 22:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by allwayswondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want a girl to be above all else...HONEST. Not a cheater. If a woman has to to change to meet these needs, she should crawl back into the gutter from where she came.
2007-01-27 22:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by D.Y. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a girl to change for me.If the guy doesnt respect who you really are then you're too good him and you shouldn't be together. Everybody is their own person and how can you show who you really are if you're trying to be something that you aren't.
2007-01-27 22:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by jon boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I look for in a woman is that she isn't afraid to be herself and doesn't change who she is for nobody.
2007-01-27 22:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by n0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a girl to be herself. Then she can be truly happy with the right guy.
2007-01-27 22:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a single girl who isn't a ***** or a s|ut. Let me know if any still exist in the Western World.
2007-01-27 22:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice , be herself and be able to talk about anything with out judging
2007-01-27 22:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing your self for someone? i think that's ridiculous although its good at times to make your self prettier at times but to change your personality? thats insane. be who you are and don't let anyone stop you. if you love this man work it out. talk to him, i know everyone says that but i mean cmon it's true.
2007-01-27 22:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rene V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone to love
2007-01-27 22:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋