there r a lot of rumors that when u do it the first time it hurts and then u get used to it..is it true?..
2007-01-27 13:46:06 · 24 answers · asked by JeZieL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey jeZiel,
It may or it may not, it's not the same for everyone, but remember this and you'll be fine.
"The pains of great love is well worth the risk"
Always practise the 3 Rs
1. Respect for Yourself,
2. Respect for Others, and
3. Responsibility for your Action.
2007-01-27 14:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Trail Hiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt a little the first time, but nothing major. You may be nervous and all, but you don't remember the pain. I'd be more worried about child birth. (I don't have kids yet and I don't think we want them)
OH sorry kids, be sure to use protection....coming from a 36 year old woman, how do you like that? I was 20 when I did it the first time and I have been careful ever since!
2007-01-27 21:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk to my sister about this all the time and she said the first time she did it it didn't hurt that bad b/c she had been fingured and stuff like that. But then I was talking to my cousin and she didn't do anything b4 that and she said it hurt really bad. But after that she got use to it and it felt good. It doesn't hurt the guys but if your not ready to feel the pain of love then your not ready to have sex. So just make sure you know what you want and don't let any body pressure you into doing anything you don't want to. Good luck with life and love
â¥Brandy
2007-01-27 21:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts mainly because you are inexperienced and not
comfortable. The better you know the person and the
more you can trust him, the less discomfort that you
will experience. You need to use lots of lubrication since
you probably will be too nervous to have an appropriate
physical response to sex. It's not severe, if it was, why
do you think so many females have done it and keep
going back for more.
2007-01-27 21:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can hurt. The wetter you are, the better it will slide in. Have him eat you for a while before the deed. After the first time, it gets a lot easier, and funner!
2007-01-27 21:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by RunsWithKnife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah kinda for like the first minute or couple of seconds THEN you become a NYPHO MANIAC ( Sex Maniac) USE protection of course and only do it IF you REALLY LOVE this person it is a
BIG DEAL Trust me you dont want to REGRET making someone your First...
2007-01-27 21:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by c d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be some mild short-lasting pain the first time, but not always. After that, painless. Nothing but pleasure.
2007-01-27 21:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the guy literally breaks you open...so yes. It hurts. But then you widen and it doesn't get so bad...
2007-01-27 21:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a rumor, sweetheart.
2007-01-27 21:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger the tool the larger the pain.
2007-01-27 21:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋