He got this girl 2 weeks after we broke up and I was devastated (even though i broke up with him). And it's 3 months later and the new girl and I are really friendly...and my ex knows about this. He's trying to get me feeling bad about myself and he tries to get "close" to her every time I see them. I am getting a little jealous and I want to know how I can make him jealous back!
2007-01-27 13:44:12 · 19 answers · asked by DivaHawk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody does this. for me i never had a girlfriend in my life. but i talk to to ppl cause im a good listener. For one thing i was made fun of a lot and i learned to shrug it off. i think thats what you need to do. cause once he sees you dont care about it he will stop. sumtimes it gets hard to ignore but if you see him coming down dont look at him and if you have a different friend talk to him/her till you pass by them. it works for me and if you try you will be less jealous and hopefully he will stop. i hope this works and try to ignore him hes just a panzee trying to showoff.
2007-01-27 13:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by majmaxwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Curious,
You say that you broke up with your EX about 3 months ago. You also say that he is trying to make you feel bad and jealous. As far as I can see he your already there. He's only doing that because he is jealous. You don't have to get back at him because he's a really bad flirter. He's just making his self look stupid anyway. But if you really want to get back at him. Act like your not paying any attention to him. That always get them mad. You should really start acting indepedndent. Stop paying attention to him. That's what he wants. He's distracting you from actually getting out and trying to get another BF. But trust me all men have different personalitys. I know that and I'm only 15. Flirt around a little. He might ask you out again. Don't fall for it. He will only try to do the same thing over again.
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2007-01-27 14:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by ashes_n_divas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is still angry at you for breaking it off. If I were you I would say something to him in front of the new girl along the lines of why do you have to hang all over her like that are you really that insecure that you have to try and show off like a child? The truth is you must have broken it off for a reason and that reason hasn't changed so you have nothing to be jealous of. You should just go out and date other guys and find yourself the right guy.
2007-01-27 13:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by LadyJadra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily, do not live on the previous. you had a at the same time as consisting of her, and yeah ok flow on. you broke up, and obviously she is attempting to make you jealous or perhaps with if it does artwork you shouldn't enable her recognize that it does, via the undeniable fact that is precisely what she needs. yet i imagine that you should merely bypass out consisting of your friends and performance a strong time, as a unmarried guy. and not in any respect even difficulty consisting of her.
2016-12-03 03:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by santella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to piss off and don't give him the time of day. Look- your relationship is over, he's obviously moved on, so you need to do the same thing. Stop hanging out at the same places, avoid being where he is, avoid contact, find new friends, travel different circles and stop torturing yourself with all this jealousy crap. It's not worth the time of day.
2007-01-27 13:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old saying........whats good for the goose is good for the gander..........also..........living well is the best revenge.
But really, the best way to handle his crap?? Hang out elsewhere if at all possible. It will give you a better perspective of what you want in life.......and besides, what he doesn't know may make him crazy............
2007-01-27 13:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date his best friend, if you have had sex with him, tell the new girlfriend that you broke up with this guy because he had a tiny penis (this is of course the nuclear bomb approach) or you can tell the new girlfriend that you have herpes because of him and that you just thought she should know.
she will dump him
2007-01-27 13:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a boyfriend - preferably one of his friends and see how he likes it when the boot is on the other foot.
2007-01-27 13:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be sensible and get out of the situation unless you
are planning a threesome.
2007-01-27 13:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting a new bf. the only reason he is doing this is because he still likes you. he'll never admit it but on a subconcious level thats why.
2007-01-28 10:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by bigboy0341 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋