A close friend of mine is soon to be gettin married. W've been friends for ever & even before the engagement it was planned me to be her maid of honor. Now she wasnts me a bridesmaid to switch places because of the bridalshower. She says shell do all this sh!t & she gets a tiny discount @ a grocerystore. Weve been friends since '91 in 1st gr.& been through tons of sh!t together. She lied @ first because of another bridesmaid not knowin what to do & me walkin w/ her. Shouldnt the heart come first? I already made a sample invintation on Microsoft Paint & I added a pic I took for them. I let her live w/ me secretly for a mnth & she owes me $60. I let her use my desktop for assignments she had in writing last semester. I let her use my desktop music site I have for them to download music for the wedding. I burnt the songs & downloaded them on my laptop thats @ their place now. She said if I dont switch well say bye to our friendship. I said ok angrly & hung up. Whats right?
2007-01-27 13:42:04 · 4 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I also right now am sharing a sercret about her being pregnant that her fiance doesn't now. My family doesnt like her. She'll be 21 by the time of the marriage.
2007-01-27 13:46:04 · update #1
Sweety, she is the bride and hiding a pregnancy. She is obviously distraught, so you should be her friend. Do whatever she needs you to do to help her. I know you must be hurt by this situation, but she has her reasons and you may never know what she is switching people around. Be the bigger person and in the end you will feel good about yourself for doing the right thing. She is not thinking clearly, help her out.
2007-01-27 14:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by suzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seems to be very upset by this decision. You should first not let anyone have any power over you!! If she wants out the friendship because you are hurt by her decision maybe you should examine your friendship and it probably could be one-sided! Sometimes when people get married; especially women they get crazy!! If you can't over look her behavior(or maybe you are always overlooking her behavior and bad hurtful decision.. you should probably make an exit) If not, you should be the bigger person and either be in her wedding or not! But don't be petty! Whatever you do for someone don't begin to take inventory and through it in there in there face!! You are bigger than that!!
2007-01-27 15:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are fickle, if you feel she is still a good friend, stick with her anyway. She may be going through alot of feelings you may not be able to relate to right now
2007-01-28 13:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Icey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...it sounds like your friendship is somewhat strained as it is. If you harbor this much resentment to her you may not want to be part of her wedding let alone maid of honor.
2007-01-31 11:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋