weve only been goin out for 9 days & he is alredy sayin that he really loves & im scared 2 fall in love..i feel in my hart that he really loves me but...but im scared..& idk what 2 do..help..
2007-01-27 13:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by ~13Chula13~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we kno each other 4 about a month or mor..we hav classes 2gether
2007-01-27 13:53:39 · update #1
Personally I'm one of those guys who falls fast like your man. I know people are going to advise you to take it slow. being its only been 9 days dont listen to them. You know in your heart when its love and when its not. Listen to your heart. Even if you get hurt take that leap of faith who knows maybe your find happiness on the otherside. If you dont take that leap of faith your going to wonder your entire life WHAT IF!! I dont know about you but i sure as hell couldnt take the constant thoughts of what if in my head if i had a chance to be happy and didnt take it.
2007-01-27 13:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he doesn't understand love, or he's a player. no one can fall in love in that amount of time. he might be enamoured by you, or lust after you, but it doesn't sound like love. you don't have to say anything to him. you can ask what he loves about you. but sounds fishy to me, a bit rushed. did he tell you this after or during sex? or have you got to that yet? maybe this is his push?
2007-01-27 13:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....9 days?... hmmm thats not alot of time at all.....how long have you guys been talking ...... dont be scared to tell him you dont love him yet ..cuz if he REALLY loves you he will understand and give you time
2007-01-27 13:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by jma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 DAYS= love
now thatS WEIRD
2007-01-27 14:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by lexydangle08 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋