Which one will give me more sex? I have a girlfriend who is a bargirl and we want to get married. But I've also thought about whether marrying a non-bargirl is a better idea. I'm concerned that the non-bargirl won't give me much sex when we marry. They seem very nonsexual to me. I like to rub my hands over a girl's body a lot and a non-bargirl might not like that. Non-bargirls also seem very snobby and they don't like to talk about sex. So, what is better? Should I marry my girlfriend at the bar or marry a non-bargirl?
2007-01-27 13:12:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Thailand
If the reason you're marrying someone is about the sex, then you don't need to get married.
2007-01-27 13:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by queenrakle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem pretty desperate...I saw your other question about mail brides...anyways, why are you looking for love in these kind of places? Why are you paying money for love? Why don't you just go out and meet people and just let love happen naturally? Sex aside, you should see which will be a much more stable woman to have. You don't want an unstable woman as a wife. I think you're probably going to have kids right? You don't want to create more problems for the society by having a messed up family. Wouldn't you want your kids to have a stable, great mom? But if you're not planning to have any children then I think you can just do whatever you want. Men do not have much to lose anyway. Except maybe some money. Hopefully you make the right decision. I think its best you don't get married at all until you find the ONE FOR YOU. If you think the bar girl can settle down and be a good wife (they're not all bad...i'm sure there are bar girls who ultimately just want to settle down and have a good home) then go for it. Don't judge them by the stereotype because not every bar girl is like that. Good luck Mr.
2007-01-29 04:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by princess_sparkles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bargirl probably already has five boyfriends from different countries. She'll give you sex as long as you keep giving her money. Once your money runs out, she;ll leave you for someone else who wants to take care of her. Non bargirls are less open about sex, but they still expect you to take care of them financially. Thats just the Thai culture-- the man is expected to support the lady. I would question the bargirls motives for wanting to marry you. It's a big risk.
2007-01-28 11:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but you seem to be uneducated about women. There is nothing wrong with that but I mean have some decency and consider that women are real people for just one minute and not sex toys for you.
I am all for great sex, but to base a relationship off of that you must be kidding. Maybe if you existence is that shallow you should stay single and spend your money on prostitutes instead of focusing on a real relationship.
It is not a situation where I am judging you; I just think about your desires and have an idea of what is better for you in the long term.
Either way best of it to you + I hope things work out for the best.
KC
2007-01-30 21:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by ksib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fren, a bar gal can be there only temporary and they are all after money or they wont want to work in bar like the one non bar gal,when marry a gal ,it is for better and worst and so my advise is better to marry a non bar gal who is not so materialistic or money minded , after all sex is always there for you when u marry her and how long more you want sex it will eventually go down the hill and the non bar gal will take good care of you till death believe me. All the best to you and ask yr instint as well,listen to your small voice whispering to you.
2007-01-28 04:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by allanckc@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, since it seems your greatest interest is sex, I would question whether or not you should marry at all - - You have heard all the jokes... the bg is probably more sick of sex because it has been her occupation.. but you are talking abt indivduals.. so, really, if you feel you must marry, then go with the one who you prefer to talk with as that is how you will spend most of your time and maybe work something out so that if you do marry that you can have all the side sex you want... but probably not marrying is the best way....
2007-01-28 06:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u still get confused,and lots of question in your mind about this. so it better to not marry yet,wait for few more months or even a year to check that what is in your mind,what the exactly that u want.
it's only u that can judge that which one is better for u.
so wait and see,give yourself more time to see everything cleary before u gonna make a disicion.
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but it's not true that non bar girl is weak of sex. many non-bar girl are very hot and hard core on sex same level as bar girl,or some even more. why? 'casue they (non-bar girl) have to hide thier lust and horny feeling all the time(they can't show off or be extrovert about sex as bar girl) ,so it's like a balloon that full of gas that ready to explode. boom!
2007-01-28 11:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a bar person?
A bar girl might be more understanding about faults.
Every women is different in every type of atmosphere so it's really hard to make a judgement for all women on things like that.
My girl isn't a Bar girl and she would love me to feel her to death.
2007-01-27 21:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure a bar girl would love to marry a foreigner..but, remember,she has experience with many different men..so you may be getting something that you cant handle, or control her night life..if you think she is gonna stay home and be a wife and mother,, guess again.. once a bar girl, always a bar girl....
2007-01-29 03:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you need is sex, get a bar-girl, but that comes with a lot of money cos they'll probably want you to pay for their family as well. if you want love, a non-bar girl.
and for your information, non-bar girls arent snobs. we just have a lot of PRIDE,future,and more intellegent.something that bar girls NEVER will ever have. and i really wonder if any intellegent non-bar girls would like to have you. cos i'm sure they have much better choice.
2007-01-29 01:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋