i need advice!!?

Question

i need help. idk what to do. i've been thinking about breaking up with my first boyfriend. hes really nice funny and i thought he was the one for me, but all of a sudden my old crush ( a friend who i liked for 2 years) came back. the moment i saw him i felt something strong in my heart.but then came the guilt. i have a boyfriend and i still have feelings for someone else. my friend knows i liked him. before he left to another school i decided to tell him i really liked him and he changed he seemed to act different with me. like if he liked me too but he never told me. now hes back and i still have really strong feelings for him. i really dont want him to see me with my boyfriend because he will feel like he didnt matter much to me when indeed i still love him. and with my boyfriend i really dont know what to do. ive been acting different... when im with him i think about my friend the one who came back.i feel so guilty . what should i do?

Answer 1

be careful, fantasy isnt always better than reality.

he makes you get butterflies and think about him 24/7 but it doesnt mean hes your knight in shining armour..

Answer 2

Well, take your time to analyze your situation.

Get to know your old friend again, cus yeah, he might have changed and you might not like his changes. But you need to be honest with your current boyfriend. If you`re unsure about the feelings taht you have w/ your current boyfriend, that doesnt seem fair to him. Just think this all out.

Most important thing; just talk w/ your old friend, & ask him what he feels for you. Then, if you still have strong feelings for your friend, then it`s best not to be w/ your boyfriend anymore.

Answer 3

Do not make any rash decisions. Try to get to know this new guy a little more and than decide. You do not want to find out that he is a jerk after you have broken up with your current boyfriend.