Tyler.I'm going out withTyler.my best friend want to share Tyler.She used to want out with him now they droke up. If he want ot share what should I do and Should I keeep my bestfriend?
2007-01-27 12:07:54 · 25 answers · asked by kealai44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she wants to share she is not your friend
If he is fine with sharing then he is not the boy for you either
You need to build up some self esteem and respect yourself girl. You deserve far better than these people.
2007-01-27 12:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think your best friend has funny ideas. Tell her NO! If your Boy friend wants to share , hold your head high and walk away fast. You deserve better than that.
A best friend would never ask that of you so I'd rethink your friendship.
When an a man and a woman are in a relationship it's two people,only. Never settle for less.
I believe in your heart you already knew the answer but maybe wanted to reafirm by hearing others say NO WAY!!!!!! Good luck to you
2007-01-27 20:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is no friend if she wants to share your boyfriend. And if Tyler wants the both of you, he is no boyfriend!
You need to have self worth. AND I THINK YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT! Don't let anybody bully you into doing anything you don't feel is right.
I would tell my girlfriend that you are not into "sharing boyfriends". (if that is how you feel) If she gets upset or mad at you, she was not a friend to begin with. The same goes for Tyler.
2007-01-27 20:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely dump him if he wants to share. You deserve someone who will treat you special, not cheat on you and that is what he would be doing. If your girlfriend is a friend she would not ask to share your boyfriend. Time to look for a new best friend, because she aint!
2007-01-27 20:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by hazel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share!?!?! I don't think so. This sounds like something a 1st or 2nd grader would think of doing.
Let your friend know that you do not share. If Tyler gets it in his mind that he is going to share himself, then you need to find another boyfriend. What he is willing to do is called two-timing, cheating, and capital jerk. Stand up for yourself and don't take no crap.
2007-01-27 20:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not share, you think you have a headache now, if you start this, you will have a migraine, then well if you do not, you also have the chance that they will do it behind your back. Watch out girl! I would get new friends and a new boyfriend, if I was you.
2007-01-27 20:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont share boyfriends.
Tell her she needs to get her own and leave yours alone. She had her chance with him, and for her to back off and let you and him try it.
You can still keep her as a friend if you want, but she sounds a little strange....as do you for considering it.
Good luck.
2007-01-27 20:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell you the truth, it will ruin your relationship, and your friendship. My sister used to do that stuff with her husband and her bestfriend, and they all no longer talk. It will kill everything and you all will lose trust and you and your boyfriend will fight constantly and you will always wonder if they are thinking of eachother. I say don't do it, and if you do, I will say that I TOLD YOU SO! Because it will not work out!
2007-01-27 20:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing boyfriends? Bad idea. Nono. That's like Tyler two-timing you and your best friend, but just with you guys knowing, and you guys not caring.
2007-01-27 20:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by somethingsovague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety.....
your "best friend" is no a best friend if shes making you share you bf....she should be understanable about this..thats your bf now....she has no righ to ger with thim too....this is your decision not your friend or bf's. . if she cares about you she would've never said enything like that...she should know you like im and care for him..why would she do that..is she trying to hurt you..
and if your boyfriend agrees to this..he's not a good bf..gurl..
that's basically cheating on you..in front of you face!
thats not right..no no..its not...
if they both wana do it..then break up with him and break up with your so called best friend....best friends dont do this to each other no matter what their past was...its not right...it seems like she dont care about how you feel about this....
you should leave them both and they whouls both get back together!
you can find a boyfriend who would want to share himself...and find yourself a best friend who cares about you not about you bf...
really....trust me girll...dont let this happen..you're going to get hurt..and when people find out you share you're bf to your bstfr...they will laugh at you..because thats not normal...this happens to people who dont care about each other...and you obviuosly care bout it..
2007-01-27 20:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋