My "best friend" hooked me up with my 18 year old boyfriend and everythign was fine until i got grounded and she started flirting with him , well theree days later he calle dme adn was acting strange . He said that he had gotten into a fight at school and that the guys were goin gto kill him and i was cryign then i asked him is this some kind of sick joke and he said yes . then the next day he told me to act liek we had broken up , and then he flirted with my best friend and tehn had broken up with me for her , our friendship is over , bu tshould i let that be the thing that broke the friendship???????
2007-01-27 12:06:18 · 23 answers · asked by strawberryskittle14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're 14, why are you dating an 18 year old? Date your own age first.
2007-01-27 12:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by veolapaul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really good freinds with her and you still want to be then dont let that ruin your friendship, but talk to her about it so it doesn't happen again. I know you are 14 and it probably seems exciting that an 18 yr old guy liked you, but think of it this way, when you are 18, what would you think of a guy trying to hook up with a 14 yr old girl. This guy is a total loser, what is wrong with him that he cant get some hot 18 yr old girl to go out with him? It is the same thing as if a 14 yr old boy was trying to get with 10 yr old girl. It is pretty pathetic on his part not yours. You dont need a guy that causes all this drama either is he a boy, or a drama queen.
2007-01-27 20:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you think you are mature enough to date an 18 year old. But it is how we all think.. we all thought we where mature at 14.. Look, just stay away from this guy and even your girlfriend.. she is not a friend to do this to you.. and basically he used you. Dont try to get even or anything like that.. just mind your own business and be busy with what makes you a better person. You know what? just be a class act and a person of excellent character. You will go far if you forgive and forget..
I actually am excited for you to move on.. this is a blessing in descise to keep you from getting hurt. You have more important goals to attend to.. and if you are not sure what they are.. then ask God to reveal them to you and help you achieve them.
God Bless
2007-01-27 20:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Esther J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! She took advantage of the fact that you weren't able to be with your boyfriend for a little while and move in on your territory. A real friend doesn't do that. What if you were older and that was your husband, would you be able to forgive her for breaking up your marriage? You're young and are going to make many more trustworthy friends along the way. She can't be trusted and neither can he, so dismiss both of them from your life and move on.
2007-01-27 20:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by ihaveahugecrush 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. I would not be too upset though, she is going to have the same thing happen to her, at least you found out the truth now, A 18 year old shouldn't be with a 14 year old anyways, they only want one thing and obviosly they can't get it from someone their own age, something is wrong there, ya hes older and likes you and you think it is great, but it really isn't worth the heartbreak.. Take your time
2007-01-27 20:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by tinydancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends and Girlfriends come and go but Friends last forever! If this is your best friend sit down and talk to her! Let her know you need her to regain your trust! This will take time but you can do it!
2007-01-27 20:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be with an 18 year old.
Trust me he doesn't want the same things you do.
Protect yourself girlfriend and move on.
Take Care
2007-01-27 20:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by zilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any 'friend' who steals your boyfriend is not your friend. And, any boyfriend who will date your best friend is a loser. You are way better off without either of them. They'll probably end up breaking up anyway! Ditch 'em both!
2007-01-27 20:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yes. bro's before ho's. as a friend there is an unwritten law that you don't mess with another girls man so you need to dump her like a bag of rocks. sorry that happened to you sweet heart.:(
2007-01-27 20:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have Friends for shopping and Friends for secrets shes goner end up Friends for shipping u you don't need him anyway and he ways 2 old f her and f him u don't need a Friend like that trust me shes only goner bring u down 2 her level your better then that
2007-01-27 20:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋