My best friend introduced me to a guy and we started going out. I've never met him in person but we talk all the time over email. When ever we talk it seems like all he wants to talk about is my friend that set us up in the first place. Sometimes he doesn't even tell me if he's going to his dad's house or if he going on vacation; he just lets me worry about why he isn't talking to me. Then I have to ask my friend where he is and she'll say she forgot to tell me that he was in california or something like that. It's like he doesn't want to tell me anything. I don't know what to do. Help!!??!!
2007-01-27 12:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by beauty&style guru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, how could you have gone out if you've never met him in person? Anyway, why should you suffer over someone like that? Forget about him, he's not interested and doesn't care enough. Cheer up, he doesn't deserve you!
2007-01-27 12:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused...you haven't met him in person but you are 'going out'?
Either way, it sounds like one of two things could be happening:
1. He likes your friend if he keeps talking about her
or
2. He doesn't know you so he talks about the only thing the two of you have in common.
2007-01-27 20:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how are u going out if you have never met him in person? You kids kill me....lol
Okay, it kinda sounds to me like the two of you have a very casual relationship. (Since you have never met and all).
If he isnt tellin u the things you wish he would, then you need to explain this to him and see if he will correct it for you. Tell him you worry and blah blah blah. If he cares for you, he will be willing to work with you, and if he still continues, then sweety, you need to move on.
Tell me you arent missing out on your childhood fun because you are sitting at home waiting for him to email you.
If you are......DONT!!!
Life is too short to have that kind of relationship and you need to enjoy it.
Good luck hun.
2007-01-27 20:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your time on this guy because he's not really interested in you. End this relationship and connect with someone who appreciates you for the special person you are. Don't ever allow yourself to play second fiddle for anyone, no matter how much you like him. It's not worth it.
2007-01-27 20:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off i don't know how you are going out with someone if you've never left you're computer chair. second of all he doesn't seem too interested, but maybe that has to do with the fact that he's never met you!
2007-01-27 20:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you aren't going out. If you have never met eachother, it really doesn't qualify as going out. Also, he isn't interested in you. Sorry, darling.
2007-01-27 20:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing to the person.
2007-01-27 20:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kristy :P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't interested in you he is interested in your friend.
2007-01-27 20:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, he sounds weird.
2007-01-27 20:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋