My wife's leaving me for another man.
2007-01-27 12:01:20 · 21 answers · asked by A B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
aw sorry to hear that
much love to you and i hope you find strength to get through this xx
2007-01-27 12:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I will pray for you and also your ex wife. Once they commit adultry with no regret, they will do it again. In time you will see that it is a blessing she is gone. I just hope and pray this will not let you go downhill and you will be strong. The only way you will go is up. She will not have a good life , once she has commited adultry. Don't sit in the dark, but go for the Light. It will get better and ask God to lift you. In time you will see that your life will become better. I feel for you, as my son went through the same ordeal. Now after a while he says he is glad he is rid of her. She was never content with anything he did for her. He now says , how happy he is , that she is gone. Pray at night. It helps and in time, you will be happy. Occupy your time and thoughts with new things. Ask God, and He will help you. Don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself. The one that needs the prayers are your ex. She has yet to reap the harvest of the foul seeds she has planted. Take care and may God bless you, and heal you, Always !!
2007-01-27 20:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a girlfriend leave me for another woman.
God hates divorce. Of course, you know that. Sometimes there is not much we can do once the damage is already done. We can pray against it, but God still lets people make their own decisions. The problem is that most of either were not taught how to have a relationship, or we were two wounded by other people (often our own parents and siblings) to be able to focus on the other person. Our own needs are two great, so we medicate them with football, work, beer… Different people have different medication, but the bottom line is that we get so focused on ourselves that we are unable to focus on our spouse, or our children for that matter, and we end up screwing them up.
What ever happens at this point, weather you get back together with her, or you move on, you need open communication. You need to be able to talk about your problems and weaknesses. Yes, even the ones you don’t want anyone to know about. You need to both be the solution to each others problems. You need to be one flesh.
2007-01-27 20:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Caveman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry man. Marriage is a very sacred bond between husband, wife, and God. He says that neither husband or wife should stray from the love or bed of the other. I know you might be very upset with her right now, but she needs to know or be reminded what reprecutions this not only has on you, but on her position in God's eyes. I'm very sorry to hear this, its hard to deal with, but know this...God will never leave you. Give him your heart, and he will give you nothing but his love and eternal life. I know its hard, but look for the positive though God. We'll all pray for you. Stay strong and faithful.
2007-01-27 20:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by stang306gt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray for Jesus to give you the strength to get threw this. Separating and possible divorce is a lot like a death. So you might morn for a little while but life goes on. You can also ask the lord to help you and also pray the serenity prayer.
2007-01-27 20:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh that has to be a low blow for your loved one to be unfaithful to you and I really feel for you. I will pray for you now.
Dear Heavenly Father,
Please bless my brother here to get over this sad betrayal and show him that you are the Ultimate truth. Let this encounter not harden him but rather make him more experienced and wiser and I pray that he will find someone who loves him whole heartedly. I ask him in your most holy name.
In the name Jesus Christ our Saviour,
Amen.
2007-01-29 04:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by nightflowerphil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read some of your questions and answers. Unless you repent, humble yourself and call upon God to forgive you for Christ sake, life isn't going to get any better.
Jesus promised your world would come crashing down if you didn't listen to Him. (Matthew 7:24-28)
Nevertheless, "better is a live dog than a dead lion."
God is very merciful to the humble, but the proud are on their own.
2007-01-27 20:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by wefmeister 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I will. I went through the same thing myself a couple of years
ago. I had to fight for what was mine including seeing my kids.
I would find a Bible, sit down, pray and then just start reading.
My Bible is the only thing that helped me get through that.
2007-01-27 20:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not you will get through this with prayer from others and you own prayers. i have faith in God and you as my brother in Christ and prayers do help even if they're not answered in the time we like. don't get revenge ,just let it be, as hard as it is and just ask for strength and understanding. you'll be fine in time to come. God Bless, you're in my prayers.
2007-01-27 20:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by kimidove1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father, in the name of your son Jesus, I ask your comfort for this man. I ask you to wrap your arms around him and keep him focused on you during this horrible time of betrayal. I ask you, Lord, to keep his heart from becoming hard, and that you show him how to go on living according to your plan. I ask you to show him how to forgive. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
2007-01-27 22:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that...
Prayer: God of all, in times when fears fill our hearts and we worry about what lies ahead, help us always to remember you are the one who holds the future, that you are always with us to guide and strengthen us. We praise you for your unfailing love. In Jesus name. Amen.
2007-01-27 20:30:16 · answer #11 · answered by inteleyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋