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Last June I started dating this guy, & things were going really well. After time had passed, my friends asked me what we were, so I asked him, near the end of July. Rather than answering my question, he replied that we were just being cool then & asked why we needed a label.

We hung out nearly every weekend, all weekend, from June through Nov. He took me on real dates, typically paid for everything when we hung out, called me baby, let his friends call me his girlfriend, took me out of state to meet his mom and family (who called me his g/f and said he had never brought a girl home), etc. We kissed, made out, fooled around, & came close to having sex. The thing is, I'm a virgin, & I wasn't going to have sex until I was in a relationship, not just hanging out.

My friend asked him about me, & he said he was trying to figure out how he felt. I can understand that. In Dec., he broke things off, & said he felt no spark. Maybe I'm in denial, but I don't buy it. What's his deal

2007-01-27 11:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by Ashes 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

He lacks your morals and couldn't respect himself or you enough to forgo sex.

2007-01-27 12:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like he may have just been trying to sleep with you, and knowing that you wouldn't do it until you were in a relationship, he tried to do whatever he could yo make you feel like you were. Some guys will say what you want to hear and do what you need them to do, in order to get you to give it up. When he saw that you still wouldn't sleep him, he bailed. He's not looking for a g/f, just to add a notch on his sexual belt with a virgin. I know you may like him, but don't get involved with him unless he makes a serious commitment and even then I would weary.

2007-01-27 20:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by ihaveahugecrush 2 · 0 0

listen ashes am 22 and i am celebant so i feel you from that piont of veiw, but honestly some guys want the benefits of a relationship without facing the responsibilities of that relation ship, unno eat the oreo stuffing and throw away the cookies. pls find urself a more responsible guy..... feel free 2 mail me

2007-01-27 20:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0 0

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