My bf and me have been 2gether for a long time. He told me he loved me ,but not as much as before and our relationship wasn't the same as it used to. I love him and want him back, but i don't know what to say... maybe we should take a break. I need somebody to talk to, and a way to get him off my mind. Please Help Me!
2007-01-27 11:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by eMa_RoSe- cHeErLeAdEr cUTiE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! I hate the feeling that you're going through. Here's what works but its the hardest thing to do.
Don't call him
Don't email him
Don't send a message to him through anyone
TRUST ME - this works
If he thinks you don't care, he will want you back. If you call him and tell him how much you love and miss him and that you can't live without him, this will push him away. Guys need a challenge once in a while.
If he doesn't call you, be strong, you'll be find and you will meet someone else. You might not think so now, but you will.
Be strong! Don't call!!!
2007-01-27 11:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These situations are never good. You still feel attatchement, but he may not feel the same. It's best to take a break. It may be a few weeks, months, maybe even years. But you MUSN'T let him get to you. Never lose your focus on your daily life. YOu need to move on. If it's meant to be, he'll come back to you, and if that is the case, MAKE SURE FOR CERTAIN, I mean, 1000000000000% he's genuine in his love for you, or you will be trapped in a horrible conundrum of emotional pain. Be strong.
2007-01-27 19:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the break up is recent, of course you will be thinking of him all the time. The best thing to do in a situation like this is to just walk away, I recently had to do this. It's the hardest thing to do, and if you run after him, he will think he has the upper hand. Just play cool with him, and if things are meant to be, it will work out. And if not thank goodness you got out of it when you did. Sorry....
2007-01-27 20:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he doesnt want to be with you and he really isnt feeling you anymore. So just stay away from him and move on. In TIME you will get over him. Thats how all break ups are you need TIME to get over that person and get on with your life. You will find someone else eventually its not the end of the world.
2007-01-27 19:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly ask him the real reason he broke it off with you , then the best way to get him off your mind is to start looking for a new boyfriend.
2007-01-27 19:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, you need to move on. I've never known a relationship to break and come back and work b4.
2007-01-27 19:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to a club and have fun (Bring friends) met new guys. Just hang out you don't have to do anything with them just see whats out their for you.
2007-01-27 19:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do his brother dad cousin you get the pic no just jokeing go out with friends met new pepole and pray
2007-01-27 20:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want him back, act like it. u have to make him want u, make him ask u back out be the kind of girl he always wanted and still does want.
2007-01-27 20:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it a day at a time
2007-01-27 19:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋