The man I considered the love of my life, just dumped me and started seeing someone else, she is so perfect, pretty, sweet, nice, a good person, etc. Right now they´re at his birthday party toughether and I´m here home crying like crazy!! At the begining he was perfect then he stopped being so nice and stood me up, didn´t call that often and he just stopped calling me when he meet this girl. I´m despertae, frustrated, angry and heart broken I´m soo saddd I just can´t stop crying. Please help me I don´t want to be this sad anymore, all day long I just think about them tougether!
2007-01-27 11:07:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw hunnie, just know it's gonna be okay and this feeling will not last forever. I know it's horrible and I have been there, the best thing for me was a taking a good dose of time..... Just indulge in the good things like go ahead and treat yourself to a bubble bath, wallow in a pint of ice cream (I'm guilty of just that one as of last nite... Mmmm) Cry cry and cry into yr pillow till there is no more salt to taste. This feeling is passing, and eventually u will find a man that is so much better for you, and your ex is going to miss you, he is probably already thinking of you, but keep your chin up and stay proud. Keep your integrity and stay strong for you but do not ngelect to nurture urself 'till you're feeling better again. = )
-Much luv
2007-01-27 11:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"At the begining he was perfect then he stopped being so nice and stood me up, didn´t call that often and he just stopped calling me when he meet this girl."
He isn't the love of your life....the love of your life would not treat you that way. You are better than that. Stop wasting all your emotional energy on someone that couldn't care less about it. You are letting these people control the way you feel and that isn't good for your mental state. Relax and try to forget about him. It won't be easy but keep yourself busy with school, sports, friends, etc. and you will be fine. Good luck!
2007-01-27 11:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by KitterKat2310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he did you a favor!! I know it seems like the end of the world right now, but I swear to you, once you stop crying & realize everything for what it is, you won't be in dispair for long! I felt the same way about a man once (pretty much with the same outcome), but once I got over him, I realized how unhealthy the relationship was. When a man really loves you, no woman (pretty, sweet, nice, perfect, or good) can distract him because the only apple in his eye is you. Please don't degrade yourself or compare yourself to her. You are worthy of love & the right man will give you that!! Take care & call your friends because you'll need to talk & do activities to remind you that there is more to life than HIM!!!
2007-01-27 11:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every disappointment is a good experience. If God intended you to have that person, He would not have allowed someone else to rob you of that relationship. Therefore dust that person off your mind there is a better person out there for you. Turn you life to God and trust him for a faithful partner for life. Stop that pity party right now and tell God I deserve a good relationship and I want to start it with you. The bible teaches "Seek ye first the kindgom of Heaven and its righteousness and all other things will be added unto you. This includes a good woman who will love you unconditionally.
2007-01-27 11:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by fluffyspy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, FORGET THEM. theres nothing wrong with you and its his loss really so look at your self in the mirror and tell your self, why should you be home crying when they are having fun, they are not worth the tear you shed, he probably thinks he's all that so show him he is nothing, go out have fun meet other people!
dance sing and sing some more, its an opertunity for you to see whats better out there! I am sure you will find your soul mate one day but sometimes to get there, you get fakes that makes knowing your true love all the better.
2007-01-27 11:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to answer this question for yourself: If he treated you so poorly, WHY IS HE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE??
You must have a terribly low self esteem to think that someone who treats you that way even deserves your love.
You need to pick your head up and start thinking a little better about yourself. When you do this, you will have more guys than you need asking you out.
2007-01-27 11:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he was treating you bad already why do you think he deserves you and you talking about the other girl is perfect kind of shows that you have some self-esteem issues, have you a couple drinks listen to some sad music get the rest of the tears out and the hell with him. also which i should have told you first try prayer it really works.
2007-01-27 11:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by T.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he's really not that into you.. And to be honest.. You really shouldn't be crying over someone who can just breakup with you and instantly date someone else.. Take it as a loss and move in (I know its not THAT simple..) But um.. You deserve someone who will love you for you.. And be the ying to your yang.. And if he really is that person then give it time but don't cry over him since that will probley make you seem like the 'crazy ex girlfriend' and push him away even more.
2007-01-27 11:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u should have known by the standups i can't help u because u have to help ur self this is somethin u gonna go through in life and this is somethin that u have to get over on ur own of coarse ur gonna cry for a while but u'll get over it in time ur truly renee p.s glad i could help hope u find the answer ur lookin for sorry he dumped u but u have to move on with ur life he has hope u feel better bye.
2007-01-27 11:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so much for ur "love of ur life". if ur not good enough for him, hes obviously not good enough for you. dont cry. tell ur "love of ur life" how you feel. if he still loves u he might stop. if he doesn't, tell him all sorts of things like how he isnt good enough. then go find another guy and see how he feels, if he feels for you or anyone.i should ask a question on this: why do people always get sad over this type of thing? well anyways good luck
2007-01-27 11:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋