There's a girl in my class who I used to talk to and also used to like her but she now kinda acts like a ***** even though here and there she still talks to me. By saying that she's acting like a ***** I mean that she comments on things I do in a mean way and she slapped me a few days ago (near other people) for no reason in a mean kinda way. But still... she asked me today whether I'm gonna go to some school event soon...I'm not sure about whether she hates me. Should I just leave her alone and ignore her or should I talk to her about this....cause I see her on a daily basis.... but I'm not even sure whether I want to go as far as a relationship with her cause of the way she now acts even though I still really like her.
2007-01-27 10:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by Pro90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you would never know unless you do ask her! But do it in private and explain to her your confusion, either way do also let her know that what she is doing to you offends and upsets you.
Girls can be funny.
Good Luck
2007-01-27 10:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your cards on the table about her behaviour maybe it will come out that she likes you?? If she does comment that she really likes you that she has a strange way of showing and to quit belittling you in front of people. Imagine what this girl will act like if she was really your wife?
Maybe something was really bothering when she slapped you. Maybe she also slapped you to get your attention. Ask her why she slapped you, some girls hate to be ignored.
Iron things out, will you continue to like her after seeing her behave this way?
2007-01-27 19:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! This girl is playing you. She is immature and self centered. You should consider yourself fortunate to have found the real her and now you know what was hidden earlier. Find someone that you can have mutual respect for, someone that considers you rather than putting on a show for anyone looking and trying to control you...there is no future in that..just a long while of having your self esteem and confidence taken down into the dirt.
2007-01-27 19:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Josie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not liking the slapping and the (mean kinda way),she sounds
like she gets her way too much,and i can tell she is cute just by the way she acts,but Baby believe me u have to act like u are the
**** and pay her no mind,when u see her get real busy,with a ooh
Hi
2007-01-27 19:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by keepitreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there just keep it as a friendship and do not let her slap u again that will gave her ways to boss u or bully u around. I'm not saying to hit her back but just say no enough is enough and do not go to the same school as you if you have to change. it looks as if she acts tough when classmates are around
2007-01-27 18:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...well, this girl could have several things going on in her head...maybe she thought acting like this made her look "cool" in front of her friends, but once they aren't around, she tries to be nice...I'd aske her about this in a non-confrontational way. So, walk up to her and say,"hey, look, I really like you, but I don't understand what's going on. We used to talk all the time, but I am getting confused because ((List reasons here)). Could you please explain to me what is going on??" GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-27 18:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you. she could be acting like that because thats her way of showing you that she likes you. some girls are just like that. just talk to her about it and ask her. you never know until you ask. and if you really like her, you should take a chance and ask her why shes acting like that and if she likes you back.
2007-01-27 18:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GO OUT WITH HER. its just going to make it even worse. maybe be good friends with her first because if you have a relationship with her now, she just might slap you even more and not even respect you if shes a *****. so trust me on this if you want women. ;]
2007-01-27 18:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is very emotional. I would be a man about it- approach her and tell her that you like her and you wonder if she likes you too. this way, you'll at least know if there's any chance that she will be your girl....Good luck, man!
2007-01-27 19:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by luckystrike_x007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she doesn't deserve you after all she's done.ignore her and then u'll see her running to get ur attention....so why not give her a run for her money aye??just remember there's many more fish out in the sea...k
all the best
2007-01-27 18:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋