whut is the best way to deal with people that dont like you?

Question

there are girls at my school that have a problem with me and i want to know why:(

Answer 1

Give them a reason to hate you!
Find a bunch of girls that do not like them and make their lives hell!

When they start ignoring you, then you can let it go

Stop feeling bad and make them puzzled at the fact that you do not care that they have a problem with you

Answer 2

Well, if they don't like you because you have some kind of bad behavior, then their hating could be the inspiration for your personal improvement. This is stuff that will happen for the rest of your life, just keep in mind that if you ever get to a point in your life where everyone likes you, then you will be the biggest doormat who ever lived. Now specifically, how to deal with them? If they are off-base in their reasoning (usually the case), then they are shallow, evil people...they need to be pitied not won-over and befriended. Ignore these people. If you think they may be on to something, walk up alone to all of them, and ask plainly, "why do you hate me?" Generally speaking, if they don't say a word, or say some generic insult, then they're just being hateful skanks.

Answer 3

Embarrass them if you have to back if they are picking on you.
Ignore them
if they majorally upset you than you can date their boyfriends or ex-boyfriends
Take up karate so you can defend yourself if they get meaner and they will be in a good surprise
Request angel protection on the internet
Talk to the school counsellor about them or the principal if the harrassment gets too bad
Confront them one by one, as a group they feel brave individually probably not so
Talk to the RCMP if their behaviour is of any criminally behaviour

Answer 4

Skyy, overcome them with kindness. When someone does something to upset you, just smile and keep going. Don't worry about what people say. I deal with alot of things like this. So I know.

Answer 5

Ignore them.Their opinion shouldn't matter to you.It could be that they are jealous of you for some reason or they are just mean girls to begin with.Don't pay any attention to the people that don't like you.The ones that should matter is your family and your real friends.

Answer 6

1st all, think about carefully whether they r worth to make friends with..if not, if u have ur own circle of friends..screw the girls...u cant make the whole world like u

but if they r awesome...find out why they dont like u and try to solve the problem urself..

Answer 7

At a job I stay out of their way as much as possible--sometimes you have to deal with them, but I stay real professional. In my private life I simply ignore them---I stay away from them, kind of I leave them alone, they leave me alone....

Answer 8

THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THEM IS TO KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS. DONT PLAY INTO THEIR GAMES. GIRLS WILL TREAT OTHER GIRLS BAD BECAUSE THEY FEEL INTIMIDATED. THEY SEE SOMETHING IN YOU THAT THEY WANT AND INSTEAD OF TRYING TO BETTER THEMSELVES THEY PUT YOU DOWN TO PUT THEMSELVES IN THE SPOTLIGHT. WHENEVER THEY TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP GIVE THEM A SMILE LOOK THEM DEAD IN THE EYES AND SAY------DO YOU FEEL BETTER NOW? CUZZ I SURE DO.

Answer 9

Can't help with why, but if you smile and go about your day acting like them not liking you doesn't matter, then you will drive them crazy.

Answer 10

shake them off gurl!!
you dont need them!!
let them know that they arent getting to you! thats what they want to do, and if you show them they are getting to you they will feel like they accomplished the mission. just do you!