...I actually hope so, because my X-boyfriend dumped me for this girl who are in that kind of situation. They did some pretty intimate things on just the first night they met. I want him back and I'm hoping that their relationship which seems to be based mainly on intimacy will crash. What do you think? Thanks!
2007-01-27 10:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2007-01-27 10:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they did it on the first night they met then that is really all they have in there relationship. They are still getting to know each other and they may find that the only thing they have in common is the physical no emotional. They need both for a relationship to work. If he did "dump" you for her then you are better of and he needs to grow up some. You may find that there is someone out there better for you. Just give it a little time you are still getting over him.
2007-01-27 18:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, this is only about half true...and I have tested the system extensively. But, I'm with the camp that can't figure out why YOU want this guy back even if you can have him.
He may be a great guy who's gotten swept up in something, and you guys may be able to get back together and work it out. But, based on what we know so far, he might just also be a flake...you need to think hard about what kind of relationship you're fighting to salvage.
2007-01-27 18:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by David G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't want to be with a guy who can leave you because another girl did what you wouldn't.
What's that say about what kind of person he is?
2007-01-27 18:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you FOR her, why would you want him back? But it will most likely end up bad. Why do you know what they did by the way? If he told you, hes a prick and who cares.
2007-01-27 18:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by s 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yea, it wont last. he did it on purpose to show you he got over you, and to make you feel shitty. but deep down, he probably doesnt like the new girl; he did it to rub **** in. If he did that to you, dont let him run back to you so quick. let him see you with another guy, or dont pick up the fone immediately. thats shitty for him to do that to you!
2007-01-27 18:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by snoflake09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, yes, it gets boring since the big surprises go down without giving you enough time to suck them in.
2007-01-27 18:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If thats what happened..thats not even true love! That relationship has maybe a .0000001% chance of lasting
2007-01-27 18:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lily M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will crash.Especially if it was that easy,that wasn't a challenge.Plus after he got what he wanted then eventually he will leave her.
2007-01-27 18:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by XOXO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he left you once he'll do it again for the next "pretty face" that comes along. You need to move on.
2007-01-27 18:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋