what are some things i can do to keep my man interested in me and me only , in and out of the bedroom?

Question

specifically, in and out of the bedroom, meaning what kind of things can i do as a woman to really make him pleased and interested in me?

Answer 1

remember back when you first started dating... I often feel the same as you.. I simply ask my husband... And he told me.. and of course I am trying.. And you know what? He asked me the same question..

Answer 2

Well first of all give him lots of attention.prepare breakfast occassionally, always with the table set. Make him a card or go out and buy one every once in a while. Do things for him on special occassions. Tell him you love him often, Always have dinner prepared for him on the days that are allowed. If you are in an arguement. Just stare into space and listen and let him catch himself they will see themselves and stop. One cannot argue alone. Say sweet things to him or ir you can't sy them write them down. I could say more but I'm not.On well I didn't want to talk about the bedroom. Most men live outside the bedroom.

Answer 3

first, don't be all of us which you at the instant are not. attempting to be somebody else which you at the instant are not for the finished factor approximately keeping a guy isn't healthful because of the fact which you're constantly on gaurd approximately no longer letting the real you come out. discover somebody that needs to be with you for you and are interested in you. yet while there are little issues that your guy likes (i.e. considerate text textile messages, a fave dish or meal, rub down after an prolonged day at paintings), then you definately can do those without compromising the guy who you're.

Answer 4

This is a million dollar zen question that will never have a good answer. The truth is I dont care how much you try to do for him, he is still going to look especially if he is very young. The main thing is to maintain a strong self confidence and give him something to worry about.

Answer 5

One no no, is if he has the urge, indulge him. I have had too many women say too me, I don't feel like it right now. No biggie. I looked for another.

Ask him what he likes, from a licking to keep him ticking to sexy clothes. And you should have lots of foreplay too.

Play some music, give him some dollar bills, and you can play stripper for him. THAT will drive any normal guy crazy. You might have to go secretly to a strip club to know what to do if you are unsure.

Answer 6

Communicate! Find out what interests him. It could be anything from favorite meals, to wearing sexy lingerie to just sharing in something that he finds important or interesting. Sex is important and he will find it more enjoyable when he can feel open and capable of expressing his desires to you without fear of rejection or ridicule...and knowing that he pleases you is just as important. This is just the tip of the iceburg....communicate with him and maybe you'll find out how deep it goes below the surface. Good luck!

Answer 7

well as my old southern genteel grandmother told me ! men are dogs they don't chase parked cars!lol keep being challenging a little mysterious and romance him , Have a life t hat doesn't revolve around him. Be good to him.
Read this old book
The rules and loving smart by Dr Phil , he must had known my grandmother.
Sounds like her advice. It works for me!
Good bless ya~

She was sooo beautiful inside and out.
Every man that crossed her path from babies on up loved her!@ she was a pistol till the day she died!lol Smart question!
p.s. my man smiles and whistles when he cooks me my breakfast.!lol occasionaly i wake him up in the morning with a cup of coffee just like he likes it with a smilllleeee!lol

Answer 8

You don't want to hear this....but what you do to keep a man interested is to be interested in life.

Do things that you find interesting and that give you joy and pleasure.

The other stuff is good but people want to be with people that are having fun.

Answer 9

Do whatever it take to make and keep him satisfied and happy,,,,,be invitive, do some role playing, act out different character's, keep him guessing what your going to do next, buy some flavored oils,get you some eatable panties, set your bedroom up with candles,to use different night's, find out his fantasies and make them realities, try new perfumes on your body,make sex fun not just humdrum rut,

Answer 10

Be yourself. THat is the persom he fell in love to anyway. Keep urself sexy and desired.
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