Is it wrong for me to give my b/f oral but not expect anything in return?? Should I expect things in return??
2007-01-27 10:21:07 · 18 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it one-sided to go to his sporting things and not expect him to come to my gymnastics meets??
2007-01-27 10:27:23 · update #1
If you feel this relationship is one-sided, than it is. Either speak up about the unfairness or leave his insensitive butt.
2007-01-27 10:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really young. I say that because they're are allot of talk about teens having oral sex. You have to look at this way. Usually when a person go as far as putting private parts in their mouths, it because they're allot of feelings for that person and they want to love them and please them so much so that they want to taste them. Now a days people are sucking and f***ing anything just for the sack of f***ing. What he knows is.... people are unclean and he don't want to put his mouth were a female piss, have a period, discharge and possibly have wiped feces in at some point and time. He is saying silently. You can do it to me, but I'm not doing that nasty stuff to you. Don't you think for 1 second that you are not being talked about. If and when you break up that's gonna be the first thing he tells everyone'' she sucked my D**k and I wouldn't put my mouth on her''. Tell him if he can't return the feeling then keep his pecker in his pants and you should think hard about putting your mouth on something that piss and gather dirt.
2007-01-27 10:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same boyfriend who keeps you from fighting guys you beat in street-racing? Then beats them up for hitting you? Because maybe you should be giving him no-obligation favors.
What you expect in return is up to you. Sometimes you just want to do something for somebody you love, because you love them.
Then again, if you get nothing in return because he's selfish, think twice about the health of the relationship.
2007-01-27 10:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are giving freely, we are giving---and that should not have any expectations attached to it. So from that perspective is it not wrong.
If you would like to find out how things are, then it is such that you have to voice that to your boyfriend and let him know that you would like to know....gut that expectation should not be attached to your giving freely.....
2007-01-27 10:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes expect him to give some to u
2007-01-27 10:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by xhes_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh God what kind of girl are you?! The only kind of person that i know would give a guy oral is someone with no self respect. and thats you.
2007-01-27 10:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that its wrong. i mean if you don't like him to go down on you than don't expect it but if you do than i guess you can expect it back.
2007-01-27 10:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should but if u want 2 then u can
2007-01-27 10:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...expect oral in return....
2007-01-27 10:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can expect an STD if you don't protect yourself.
You sound awfully young.....please think about what you're doing and why you're doing it.
2007-01-27 10:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋