That tomarow we were going to make out for the first time! I really really want to because i luv kissing him but I am really nervous because I have no idea what to do! He is practicly an expert because he has had so many Girl friends! But I am so nervous that I will be really bad! What do I do?
2007-01-27 10:11:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just dont worry about it, take it slow, and dont gag him ith your tounge or anything ;) loosen up girl
2007-01-27 10:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's the expert then you should ask him to teach you how to make love to him. Men like to think they taught you how to do things. All people are different, what he might like another one might not like it. So sweetly ask him to teach you how to make love to him. Don't do anything that's degrading to you. Always remain a lady and if it's uncomfortable then let him know that it is. I hope you're old enough to make this decision to have sex. If not you should speak to your parents first. Since he's had so many girlfriends PLEASE HAVE HIM TO WEAR A CONDOM. You should take precautions as well, in case the condom breaks.
2007-01-27 10:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your age, but just relax and do what feels right. Hopefully, he won't pressure you to do anything other than kissing. Not to be a prude or anything, but making out can lead to other things. And dependent on your age, you need to watch yourself and not lose control of the situation.
2007-01-27 10:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides making sure your bf wears as condom there's nothing for you to do but relax. The guy does all the work anyhow. It would probably be better for both of you if you gave him positive feedback when he's doing something right.
2007-01-27 10:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,if he's an expert let him lead.Try to relax you don't want to be nervous.
2007-01-27 10:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by XOXO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, don't worry about being perfect. Just make sure you're comfortable. If something happens that makes you uncomfortable, stop.
2007-01-27 10:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by SirCornman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no Blossom...you wont be bad....if you both love each other im sure he will understand youre new at it...just relax and enjoy....sex is beautiful and healthy as well...just make sure that he stops when you hurt or dont want to continue....good luck
2007-01-27 10:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous, i actually told my bf that he was gonna b my first kiss, and first thing he told me was "u better not be nervous, be excited" ... and its true ... everyones kissing styles are different and after a few times, u both will know wat the other one likes ... and even tho hes kissed alot of girls ... doesnt mean anything bc hes gotta learn wat u like, so dont worry ... enjoy the moment
2007-01-27 10:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by smilingisgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry so much!! honestly, i think everyone worries before their first kiss/makeout.. whatever.. but it usually turns out better than you expect.. i actually told my boyfriend i had never kissed anyone before and he took it fine and we just.. made out?
hahaha.. just have fun and enjoy the moment ;)
2007-01-27 10:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow and allow him to teach you. He will guide you, and you might just guide him too. Have fun.
2007-01-27 10:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋