Can a 17yr old boy allow his g/f to fall asleep in his arms and not break their boundries?? My b/f has been pretty good about it but my friend says no.
Like when we watch tv he just puts his hand on my stomach or rubs my back.
She says guys can only endure that for so long b4 they go feeling you up
Can't guys respect a girl's wishes?? I think so but she says her b/f used to until she refused to give it up to him. Is she right??
2007-01-27 10:06:58 · 16 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all men are like that. If your boyfriend has always shown you respect and you trust him, he will probably respect your boundaries while you're asleep. Besides that, there is always the concern that you might wake up, and how badly that would fare for him if you woke to him doing something "unauthorized."
2007-01-27 10:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. There are no absolutes. Be clear with your b/f about your boundries. If he does not respect your wishes than its time for a change. Your friend might be trying to be helpful but she does not know your b/f as well as you do.
2007-01-27 10:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe it is possible you have the wrong guy. And that doesn't mean you can't trust him, it means you don't trust him. My wife and I have been married for over 35 years. I have never cheated and neither has she, and no, I don't even have to ask, I know.
IMO trust is the most important thing you can have in a relationship. All the other stuff can come and go but "TRUST" has to be there 24/7.
2007-01-27 10:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the boy, but the fact is that most boys 17-25 are horn dogs and don't think he is not thinking about sex, i would say 99% of men and boys think about it 24/7. BUT that doesn't mean he would not respect your wishes. My belief is believe in someone until they give you reason not to, but if he does start to push sex on you don't do anything that you are not ready for or want.
2007-01-27 10:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by calenderchic0271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you tell this boy your boundaries, and if you're not ok with progressing, then don't. And if he can't respect you, then kick him to the curb. Realize that some stuff is ok, but once you get to a point of being uncomfortable, then you need to put on the brakes.
2007-01-27 10:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup yup yup.She is definitely right because boys dont rub yur stomach and all when your watching tv.Same happened here but he didnt get what he wanted so i left him.When he does it often he is tryna make a move.Watch your bacc thats what friends are for.
2007-01-27 10:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can respect wishes and dont always take what your friend has to say. if youre not ready youre not ready and he shouldnt force it and it sounds like hes a keeper cuz he hasnt ignore your silly friend maybe she just never had a good guy like that that hasnt pressured her. good luck and stay happy
2007-01-27 10:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the trust was broken over, most times no. Lisa Michelle x x lol x x
2016-05-24 06:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're putting yourself in that environment then yeah its possible.Maybe not right now,but the same routine will get boring.Switch it up.
2007-01-27 10:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by XOXO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, alot of guys can just chill with their girls like that without going into temptation.
your friends just a little insecure and untrustful of guys:(
2007-01-27 10:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋