Relationship?

Question

My ex & I have been working on trying to get back together. I found out that she has been contacting her ex and she says it is only friendship. When I found this out, I told her it was either me or them and I walked out the door. I have not heard anything from her in three weeks and then she sent me an E- Mail & said that she didn't like being given an ultimatum & reacted like she would to anyone else. She said she didn't know if we could ever work out our difference's, but she still loved me and thought about me every day. I was wondering if I am handling this wrong or what? Is it right for her to be in contact with her ex if I feel threathened by it??

Answer 1

It sounds like this girl has a thing with exes... I would steer clear and move on to someone that can appreciate you. If my man didn't like me talking to me ex I would stop talking to him... but if you are truly in love with this chick I say go for it... but overall I would say bad idea. Find someone who wants you, not someone who wants to make you their next ex.

Answer 2

A relationship has to fit like a glove. If the glove isn't fitting properly then you have to give up on it. Just remember that if she's talking to her ex now AND you do get back together, she'll probably continue to talk to him when you're a couple. If you can't live with this then don't get involved again.

Answer 3

the thing is that you are feeling insecure and immature and in top of that you do not trust your girlfriend. if she said she loves you is because she does. it is not a good idea to make a girl choose who she could be friends with because either way she is going to continue having a friendship with her ex and nothing more. she loves you stop acting so immature and grow up other wise you are going to loose her, and is going to be hard to get her back. THINK ABOUT IT, AND MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!