The guy that I like and hes liked me,has a girlfriend now.He had a really bad car wreck,and he almost died.I called and checked on him,and I was one of the only people who checked on him.I'm wondering,when he and his girlfriend are over,will he think of me as a potential girlfriend again?I seem to be the type of girl he likes.
2007-01-27 10:00:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
(I was thinking easy 12 points. lol.)
2007-01-27 10:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say...chances are if he has a girlfriend then she showed just as much if not more concern...and she IS his girlfriend...better that you don't have a lot of high hopes, but anything is possible. He may see you with new eyes at some point...the thing that I would worry about though is whether you went to see him because you were genuinely concerned about HIM or because you wanted him to see you visiting and know you "cared"...better if it was the first and had no motive. I know it's hard when you love someone to give unselfishly - firsthand - there is always going to be the little payoff that you love them and are happy to see them and have them love you back. There really isn't any guarantee that he will or won't either way though...good luck.
2007-01-27 18:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by think about it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you deserve to be #1 in whoever's life you want to. That was a very thoughtful thing you did. I'm sure it meant allot to him too. Unfortunately you may have to remind him of the fact that some special other people didn't seem so nice. If you don't toot your own horn, nobody else will!
2007-01-27 18:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy was in a bad car accident and you're wondering if he might like you in the future? Maybe you should spend less time worrying about how the situation affects you and more time worrying about his well being.
2007-01-27 18:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Odvok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, he has a girlfriend now.
No use for you to wait and wonder! Get on with your own life, if he ever does break up with her, then you might have a chance or maybe life has changed for you and you are not interested anymore!!!
2007-01-27 18:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are hoping himto break up. What if she makes him really happy, wouldn't you want that for him? You seem like a very caring person but don't count the good that you do.
2007-01-27 18:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will if you let him know you'd like to be his girl. You've already showed you care for him but it would still be up to you to step up to the plate and let him know you're interested once the breakup actually takes place. - Good Luck!
2007-01-27 18:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by flsuave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's the least of his problems right now. He probably will have to work on the post-trauma from the accident first.
2007-01-27 18:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A LOT DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF ACCIDENT. IF I WERE YOU ( EVEN THOUGH YOU LIKE HIM A LOT) I WOULDN T GET STUCK WITH TAKING CARE OF A HELPLESS PERSON. BE CAREFUL , REMEMBER YOU CAN ALWAYS BE HIS FRIEND AND CARE ABOUT HIM BUT THATS DIFFERENT THAN LETTING HIM BE A BURDEN TO YOU. YOU NEED TO LIVE YOUR LIFE TOO.
2007-01-27 18:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a wonderful person....to check on someone you care about tells me you are kind and caring....if his girlfriend didnt do that for him he doesnt deserve her...we need more women like you in this world...i couldnt even use a woman like you....lol...good luck...i pray for your friends recovery
2007-01-27 18:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋