My b/f say he loves it when I come up and put my arms around him or trace his chest with my fingers b/c a few of his friends like me.
Do anyother guys like this?? Is he using me, or just proud and showing me off??
2007-01-27 09:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am I wrong not to care what his friends think??
2007-01-27 10:02:07 · update #1
he just likes the attention he is getting from you and wants to make his friends jealous at the same time....
2007-01-27 10:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He senses the other people looking at you. Evidently you are an attractive woman. He's insecure about his ability to keep you "his" girlfriend.
It's the same thing some weak minded men do when they are in a club or bar with thier girlfriend. They leave to go to the bathroom and BAM, two or three guys are hitting on her when he gets back. Some guys will poke thier chest out, and walk over putting thier arms around the girl or worst, they will get up in the face of the guy who is hitting on her. LOL It's funny!
Me? I let the guy say what he wanted to say, let my girl see me and just stand in the distance. She normally comes over to me, but if she don't and is just being polite, I'll go mingle with a group of goodlooking chicks. Strike up some BS conversation about what thier opinion is with Older guys dating younger women, and she usually comes over then. Then I'll say some witty pick up line like "let me guess, he hit you with, so what's a goodlooking girl doing in a place like this". Or better yet, he probably said "why in the world are you dating a guy like me." hahaha! Then we'll laugh about it and get on with our night.
Your man needs some advice in that matter. He needs to feel that you only want him when you are around other goodlooking guys. His confidence is down. That's all it's about.
Sure I love to show off my girlfriends, lol when I have them. It's nice to have the whole room look at us walk in a room. We command attention. I only date the "high maitenence type" because that's what I prefer. If you're not a 10, I'm not in! I'm a competitive person and like winning the game of "who's got the hottest babe under thier arm". It's what all men play. Some are just too weak to admit it.
Yes, he is showing you off. But he's also a bit nervous when you show someone else your attention. So public affection is his security blanket.
Give it if you want, go meet a confident man like myself if you'd rather. Just go with your heart. No matter what everything else says. Like the Roxette song "listen to your heart".
2007-01-27 10:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just showing off
2007-01-27 10:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is just proud to show his friends that you are his girlfriends, that he is the lucky one!
2007-01-27 10:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both dear. Whatever you do, never to anything with him in public if it makes you feel uncomfortable. It is a simple rule.
2007-01-27 10:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with it then no it isnt hot, just seems that he doesnt mind pda and just seems to be affectionate . Nothings wrong with affection as long as your all comfortable with it
2007-01-27 10:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by cristy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need to know this stuff, But ya he likes to know that u like him and not his other friends, and he like you to show it in front of them
2007-01-27 10:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this quetion was just posted hun. the same exact question. who gives a ****. if he tells you he likes it, then he likes it. his friends might be jealous, but who cares, he's yours, your his and thats all that matters
2007-01-27 10:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has ever done that to me but it sounds nice.
2007-01-27 10:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol......he wants everyone to know that you belong to him and him alone....
2007-01-27 10:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋