like even if good things r happening in life, i feel like i need to think negative. ex: i dwell on like death, or crazy thoughts about rebelling or alcohol, i know i WONT do these things, but it seems like i always have something to think about.
and how do i not worry about these things..and just be normal. it seems like no one i know goes thru this. ughh
and i get all these weird mood swings where ill be too positive, then jst thinking negative again.
i wanna be NORMAL!
im only 14 too..
2007-01-27 09:55:28 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
O AND I FEEL LIKE IM LIVING ON THE EDGE, WHEN IM NOTT!!
2007-01-27 09:56:20 · update #1
(actually i dont like talking to professionals, it makes me think im sick and it makes me think about it more)
2007-01-27 10:17:06 · update #2
At your age, it's actually normal. It's hormonal. It wouldn't hurt to talk to a professional about it, though. Even if just your family dr. Just to make sure your most extreme thoughts are still within the normal range. Women are complicated. We are very prone to hormonal outbursts. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine, sweety.
2007-01-27 10:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by flacocajuncujo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your depressed. At fourteen, it's been said to be common for depression and negative thinking. I myself am fourteen as well, and negative thoughts come to mind because life isn't always fair to you, or your day just kind of sucks. A lot of people go through this, they just don't admit it. The mood swings? Surprise, shock, lots of factors come in there it differs from person to person. Besides, nobody's normal. If you want to think on a balanced level, just sum up your courage and talk to somebody you can trust.
2007-01-27 12:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dusty C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet you watch a lot of TV! There is plenty of "bad stuff" on there. If you watch it all the time you should not be surprised at your thinking about what you see there. Just change what you put into your perception and I'm sure your thinking will improve.
Try reading a nice romance or other uplifting book. At least watch comedy only on TV.
2007-01-27 10:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to think that way....I know I did when I was your age. The thing you have to remember, though, is that a LOT of people really love you. Probably a lot more than you think. Also, they would love to talk to you about this, but it may be slightly awkward at first to do it. But give it a try.
2007-01-27 10:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by David D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't remember the verse but there's a scripture in the bible about excessive worry. Maybe you can talk to a good friend or pastor about your feelings. Sometimes it helps just to talk to someone else. They don't have to be going through it to be a compassionate listener. All worrying does is rob you of your happiness.
Take good care of yourself. God bless.
2007-01-27 10:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I have these same feelings. I think we need to get a hobby or something that we enjoy doing
Sometimes I am the happiest person in the world then the next mintue I could cry a river.
2007-01-27 10:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have bipolar diesease, thats when you are happy one sec and then get depressed the other sec go to a theraphist they may help.
2007-01-27 10:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Jesse♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in actual fact ask for forgiveness for saying this yet, your mom sounds certainly psychotic! there is protecting, and then there is down top creepy. flow out of that domicile domicile as quickly as you turn 18.
2016-11-01 10:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... puberty? ....i dunno =.=' yr just getting mood swings. lots of teens have them...
...i think
2007-01-29 14:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋