i have a girlfriend who is amazing but i honestly rather be single and i kinda want to get back with my ex (although she cheated on me). I still have feelings for her and i can see something there between us, I'm not sure if i just want to help her and make her the person she deserves to be and that i know she is. I'm in love with my girlfriend though and I'm afraid to hurt her because she has been hurt alot and because i truelly care for her. I'm not sure if I know what love is anymore and I'm not sure if I am ready to. Should I try again with my ex or just stay sing? I know for a fact they both truelly love (or strongly like) and care about me. Any advice you can give me will mean so much to me.
2007-01-27 09:49:43 · 6 answers · asked by Fumadero 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay single. You sound confused and until you know what you want and who you want to do it with, you would have less problems and cause less pain if you just find yourself right now and you can only do that alone.
2007-01-27 09:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound very confused and would be better off single for a while until you can decide what you want. Your current girlfriend is going to get hurt anyhow because you wont be giving your all to the relationship. Often when we split with someone and it wasnt our fault its harder to get over, if you want to help your ex become a better person can you not just be her friend until you sort your head out? good luck with this x
2007-01-27 17:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice:
1. Break up with your current girlfriend, she deserves better.
2. Do not go back to your ex girlfriend, you deserve better.
3. Stop and take a breather, you are not the social worker of the world that needs to guide girls to their better self by being their boyfriend.
2007-01-27 17:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cheated then she obviously wasn't happy with your old relationship. you should stay single unless you trust your ex completely and fully. if there is any doubt then don't get back together with her, she might just hurt you again
2007-01-27 17:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheaters need to be kicked to the curb. i think you should probably stay single until you have time to figure things out then make your choice...but dont rush.
2007-01-27 17:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it ain't broke , don't fix it!
2007-01-27 17:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Richard J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋