Hi there am madly in love with this girl, called hannah id do anything for her. i split with her 2 weeks ago cos i had an argument with her at work infront of her collegues and then had another argument again after 2 days on fone. she finished with me after 6 weeks . i have been asking her to get back with me and she keeps saying she dont know what she wants. She got with me 7 weeks ago after she split up with her 4 year boyfriend.
i dont know wat to do..... i met her today and we had a chat she told me she likes me plus has feelings for me and also fancies me, but she says at this moment of time she doesnt know wat she wants and just wants us to be friends. she said she would meet me again next week to go pictures.... i need help from you guys i really like this girl and want to be with her!!!...do you guys reckon she would get back with me ? however while she was wid me for the 6 weeks i treated her like a princess bought her flowers a 200quid armani watch etc for xmas. I work with her so i would really appreiciate if someone could give me some tips to get her back. you can email me or add me on msn nikewholesale@hotmail.co.uk thanks xxxx
Sometimes i ask her why doesnt she get back with me she says she doesnt know if she wants to act on her feelings!!! what does this mean ??? i have been very nice to her since i bin wid her and i sometimes say stuff which i dont mean so we argue over stupid fings and i end upswearing which i know i am wrong. i also text her and ring her a bit what can i do help i like this girl to bits, am not desperate guy but she is sweet, i allways fink about her please help me get her back with your itips and comments thanks xxxx
2007-01-27 09:44:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for starters, you're the rebound boyfriend, and she is going to worry about that being anything but a mistake.. 200 quid watches help with that, but with big fights, she's always gonna doubt that you can be anything but a mistake after a 4 year relationship. She is also probably worried about jumping right back in to something serious. So you've got all that working against you. Add to that you are desperate, which won't help. She'll think you needy and clingy.
So really speaking there is nothing anyone here can say to wave a magic wand. You have the perfect solution already, she is prepared to go out with you as friends. The idea, is you give her space, make fights a thing of the past, be warm but not overbearing and let time make things right.
2007-01-27 09:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
when "she says that she doesn't know if she wants to act on her feelings" she probably is confused with her feelings, maybe she wants to be back together with you but at the sametime she doesn't. Maybe you should give her a bit of time, then ask her if you want to get together again so you two can be boyfriend and girlfriend. Let her know how you feel and show it a lot, try to argue less or don't argue at all, because if you argue that might hurt her and make her not want to get back together with you. Also if you say stuff that you don't mean sometimes try not to say that at all so it won't start an argument. Try to take her out, show her how much fun, sweet, caring and nice you are. Maybe she'll want to get together again after seeing you being like that.
I don't know what else to say but Good luck with getting back together with her, sounds like you love her very much.
Remember this though, you cannot force someone to feel a certain way about something, they will feel how they feel or what they feel.
2007-01-27 09:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by random 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boy that was long. anyway she does need time because she came out of a 4 year relationship and did not have enough time to get over it b/4 she hooked up with you. just coz u buy a girl nice things don't mean she will want to be with you. just continue to be her friend and be patient with her as you like her so much ans when she is ready trust me she will know exactly where to look.
p.s noticed ur msn said something about Nikes, do u sell them?
2007-01-27 10:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has split with her boyfriend of 4 yrs she needs some time. Give her some time and space so she can see how she feels. If you don't and she just gets back with you, you will only suffer heart break further along the line.
2007-01-27 09:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hannah doesnt want 2 get back with u..u r a nice guy so she doesnt want to hurt your feelings so she is just leading you on..you have to leave her alone...you will find a new gil who will love you as much as u love her.
2007-01-27 12:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋