my kids fight from the time they wake up untill the time they go to bed , i have had it, it is driving me insane and i cant stand to be around them, nobody will even take them at the same time because they fight so much. what can i do to make them stop? before i have a nervous breakdown.
2007-01-27 09:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
give your 2 weeks notice pack your bags and leave!! and don't forget to leave them the phone number for your attorney
2007-01-27 09:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by petemeup b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. Grab a belt or a thin, green, tree branch. Hit them with it every time they misbehave. Make sure you are consistant. PLEASE, don't over do it. Make sure not to leave brusing or brake the skin. After, ignore them for a good 30 minutes and let them know that if they do it again you will punish them. Now, again make sure you are consistant because what you ultimately want to do is build a "mental leash" so a mear threat or look will have them behaving...Trust me, it's how the rest of the world is raised. You know, those cultures where the children actually respect their parents and would never think about speaking out of turn? I am from one of them and trust me this works. Give it a try, what have you got to lose? Oh, and ignore all this other people who try to tell you that "grounding" and "talks" work. They do sometimes but in your case....you need to pull out the big guns.
2007-01-27 15:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by WWW.MYHIBRID.COM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get into a Positive Discipline Workshop, where you can learn effective methods of getting your kids to respond to your guidance and leadership. There's no single thing you can do to make it stop, it's more about your parenting techniques, and the time and consistency required. At the workshop you can raise your concern and get appropriate feedback. There's a light at the end of the tunnel . . .
2007-01-27 09:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋