I am currently dating a really nice guy. He is so sweet and funny, but I don't know if there is a future in it. My problem is this. A great guy that I have known since childhood likes me too! So much that he wants to get married! But he is in prison for one more year. And just recently, my best friend, one I love very much, told me he likes me too! I know that he needs me because he has a drug problem and as he says I am his angel. On top of all this, my ex is wanting to talk about getting back together! I have been honest with all of them, but I'm afraid that I'll hurt one. What do I do? I really have no idea how to handle this situation!
2007-01-27 08:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by glitz_and_glitter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to bail out on all of them and stay away for anyone else for at least a good month or so. While you are taking a break pick up a hobby or do a lot of reading so you aren't thinking of guys. Whoever you feel like you have the strongest attraction to after one month pick that one and stick with just that one.
2007-01-27 08:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!
How long have you been with your really nice current boyfriend? You sure there cant be something of a future for you in it?
Your best-friend who has a drug problem (well I dont know him, but my experience is sufficient enough) may not turn out to even be a friend... Please Be Very Careful with the 'warming up to you scenario' even from a 'best friend'- you could get hurt!- I was hurt by my own sister who got into drugs =(.
The 'great guy' from childhood... why is he in prison? Would he make a good husband and father of your child/ren one day?
Please think about the pro's and con's of each one, with honesty to yourself! Dont think about the 'but shame I should be nice, look what he has or is going through'! It is your life on the line in the end sweetie and maybe even your childs!
Hugz*
2007-01-27 08:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drug problem??? Prison??? RUN... do not walk.. to your OTHER friend... whichever one hasn't been in prison and doesn't have a drug problem - you'll be MILES ahead in the long run. I can guarantee I won't be the only person answering this question like this.
btw: I'm really "Paul H, Level 6" but am having problems accessing my original account.
2007-01-27 08:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself because you and only you know who you would be happy with in a relationship. The guy in jail is an iffy because usually they find one girl to sweet talk while they are in there but when they get home its another story they leave you broken hearted and move in with another girl. You wouldn't be dating the guy right now if you didn't like something about him and him about you. The guy with the drug problem just needs support while he is in rehab not a girlfriend he needs to be worried about getting himself better and doing what he needs to to change his life. Just my opinion listen to your heart!!! If you are not happy you cannot make anyone else happy.
2007-01-27 08:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you love, one of them is in jail, and the other have problems with drugs. 0.0 Interesting. Very interesting.
Well, lets see whats going to happen. Let me know who you will chose lol. In your situation someone will get hurt.
Welcome to life angel. You have to decide, you are the only one who knows who you love. right? If you want other people to help you who to love, then 0.0 thats interesting too. Peace
2007-01-27 08:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the guy in jail and the ex, help out that drugy, become his perfect drug.
2007-01-27 08:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋