ok next week me and a few of the guys are goin2 da movies in a limo.
they all got dates and i want 2 ask. she is the most beautiful girl in the school and she is really nice 2 me. she doesnt have alot of friends. i like her alot. i want 2 invite her but. i get nervous around her and i morph in2 this serious guy. and even when i aint serious my heart is racing out of control. i've asked other girls out but dis is the first time i felt this feeling around a girl..
what should i do? should i ask her out? and how?
2007-01-27 08:00:35 · 24 answers · asked by Lord Ultimate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is shy, so you need to be the aggressor! deep breath and just ask, let her know that you really like her and that you would want her to be your date to the movies. group date not as much pressure. she is probably just waiting for you to open up first
2007-01-27 08:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say, ask her out, don't think negatively about anything, be positive, and if you still can't ask her in person, then do it in a note and be real sweet and cute about it. But if she is shy, you should try not to be shy, maybe look up some funny jokes, memerize them and tell a couple to crack open her shell. Push her to talk, but don't push too hard or she'll close up even more and wont let you in. And if she accepts, get her a single red rose with a long stem, it's romantic and it will make her smile and fall in love with you. Hope I could help
2007-01-27 08:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing 2 do is write her a note . tell her how much u think she is beautiful and how attracted 2 her u r,that Will give her time 2 react and think also. then u can go up 2 her the next day and say hi,then ask her wat she thought about the note. if she like it and thinks the same way about u then u can invite her out 2 the movie. and u will take it from there, and mayb ask her out if u want. wish u luck.
2007-01-27 08:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jst blow ur whistle man!
in a polite aproachabl tone. Xcuse me.. Hi...? m sory its so unsual 4me 2 ask out this way but jst cant resist invitin u 4a movie wit frendz..? that is if u dont mind, if not its still fine.. just dat m plizd wit u. do u mind kipin in touch may be somtym next tym..? xchange contacts & da battle begins.....
2007-01-27 09:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by mkzee2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to see if you are able to ask her to the movies but don't treat it as a date. Look to it more as a group of friends going to the movies and ask if she wants to come along.
2007-01-27 08:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Johnathan L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my honest opinion is that if your having trouble asking the girl out then imagine how it will be at the movies. i dont know everything about the girl or you so i could be wrong but it sounds like you dont know her THAT well and if you went to the movies with her in a limo... might be very awkward. just try bringing one of your friends. you dont have to be attracted to agirl to take her on a date. you could go as friends!
2007-01-27 08:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Just go right up to her and say, "We (me and....") are all going to the movies on Saturday night. We rented a limo and everything. Would you like to go?" Practice saying this outloud in front of the bathroom mirror about a zillion times until it just comes out naturally. You'll be okay and I best she says "yes"....
2007-01-27 08:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Chances are she will go with you unless she's got strict parents or a boyfriend on the side.
Ask her if she'd like to go to the movies with you and that it'd be a double date or whatever.
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2007-01-27 08:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try writing a letter to her explaining how you feel but before you end it ask her out.....Tell one of her friends to tell her or one of your friends and see what she says when or if she asks why you didn't ask her yourself just let her know how shy you get around her...maybe your in L.O.V.E
2007-01-27 08:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her where you're going & who's all coming & you'd love to invite her, even if it's just a "friendly" date so you can get to know her more.-she shouldn't have a problem with that if there's other people involved.
2007-01-27 08:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋