Saw her maybe once or twice a week, just to chill out with. Went out of your way to have lunch with her when you were meant to be studying. Gave her a long hug when you saw her. Spent 3 hours over coffee when it was meant to be a 'quick chat', and then had lunch, which turned into an evening out on the town with just her. Touched her arm to emphasise points. Took funny videos on your mobile phone of her when you were having coffee. Walked her home out of your way when you were cold and had a bike you could have whizzed home on. Never, ever asked about how her new relationship was going. Lent her your scarf to go home in when you didn't know when you were going to get it back. Try out online dating and describe your ideal woman as having the exact personality of her...
Could this really be a case of just a good friendship, or do you think there's some attraction involved?
2007-01-27 08:00:11 · 18 answers · asked by happynspirited 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
er, I'm the girl, not the guy!
2007-01-27 08:06:52 · update #1
This guy's so slow he's almost stationary.
2007-01-29 02:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every kind, good deed a male does for a female means some romantic involvement on his part. It could be that he is just a nice, sweet, thoughtful guy. Do not read too much into his actions. The only time that you should really let your heart feel that he has romantic feelings for you is when he comes out and lets you know himself. In the mean time, don't let your heart run away with you.
2007-01-27 08:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good friendship thing, but the lending a scarf is a way of trying to ensure that you do see each other again. A lot of the gestures are signs of politeness - which are becoming more infrequent nowadays, but often nowadays politeness is used to try to attract someone.
2007-01-27 08:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could very well be the case. Unless this guy does this to everyone which I actually doubt. Touching you I would consider a big give away. There is at least some attraction there.
2007-01-27 08:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother, you got it bad. Ask the girl out. If she is wanting to spend this much time with you too - even if she is seeing someone - she obviously has it bad for you too. Sorry, I am not a guy - I am a gal - but I just had to answer!
2007-01-27 08:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This goes beyond the fancying stage. You're totally besotted, and need to determine if the feeling is reciprocated.
2007-01-27 08:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that sound like he really likes you.
Also add staring at you or looking away if caught.
Also maybe being shy, looking like wanting to say something, awkard, touchy, lost for words around you
2007-01-27 08:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person what you think and feel. No door opens unless you knock and ask to be invited in.
2007-01-27 08:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some unspoken attraction
2007-01-27 08:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes! this guy is going out of his way to be with the girl.
2007-01-27 08:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't gay than he is defiantly into you. If you don't feel the same way just be careful how you act because you will lead him on.
2007-01-27 08:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋