Ok, well my ex boyfriend has been talking about me behind my back to all of his friends. And i dont go to his school but my friend told me so on his bebo (its a website to keep in contact with people most children my aage use it) i posted him a comment saying:
Look i don't really care if your my friend or not, but you really don't have to talk about me Behind my back.. because its not like my friends dont tell me what you say about me and also.. People ususally talk about people that they dont like... soo .. if you dont like me,why waste your time talking about me?! Oh.. and did you ever think maybe i might not like you either.. but i dont waste my time and breath being mean about you to my friends.. because i have got better things to do than talk about you. Im Telling you this because its really staring to get on my nerves.
Was i wrong or mean to say that to him because i didnt no what else to say to him. he said some real terrible things and i had never said anything bad back
2007-01-27 07:58:23 · 10 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you said was good til the last thing where you said it was getting on your nerves. Thats what he is trying to do and you let him know he is succeeding. The best thing you can do is let it go and leave him to his misery alone. Just be happy and enjoy your life. You cant control other people.
2007-01-27 08:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not bad or wrong in doing that, but I would have just ignored what he was saying since you don't even go to the same school. If peoples' opinions of you are based on false statements that came from your ex, they are stupid for even listening to him because that is completely biased. People need to open their mind and think, "Why is this person talking crap about their ex?" Obviously your ex has not moved on and is very immature in his actions. If he were mature, he would let people form their own opinions of you instead of forcing a preconceived idea of you into others' heads. He also is not very secure with himself if he has to spread rumors to make people not like you.
2007-01-27 08:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by *~*BUNNY*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have said your peace and got it off your chest. Now move on and let him go. If he talks more about you then you have to let it slide off your back and continue you life on your own. It will die as soon as he finds a new girl friend. It is part of learning how to handle unpleasant things in life. You did what you thought was best but each time you answer him it encourages him to be meaner. If it happens again, which it will, stop talking to him and let it go. If he feels you no longer care and he is not making you upset, and that is why he is doing it, he will soon stop. By answering him you have just encouraged him to say more. Look if you like to egg someone on but bothering them, and you get a reaction, it gives you courage and enjoyment to continue, even though they have asked you to stop. The more they protest the more you egg them on. Once you get now reaction from them the fun is over. Simple fact of life, in relationships of love.
Just the way it is.
2007-01-27 08:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have wasted my time. You posting that will just embolden him to say even worse things.
2007-01-27 08:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have mentioned it to him but i dont think the way you did it was completely right... yo uwere kind of mean about it (im not saying he doesnt deserve it) but no. you werent wrong in saying it.
2007-01-27 08:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing.
2007-01-27 08:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have reacted in any way...ignoring him is the worse thing from your part that he could have had.
2007-01-27 08:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not mean at all....its not like you are cursing at him or something
you are just telling what you are feeling thats all
2007-01-27 08:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by reality.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing...showing him that you dont care!
2007-01-27 08:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Ashley♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its the truth. dont feel bad.
2007-01-27 08:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋