been with him for three years and dumped me about 3 weeks ago. been trying to call him and persuade him into coming back together. is i too fatal attraction or would it work?
2007-01-27 07:57:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be desperate
2007-01-27 08:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO! He will be totally creeped out and what if he's there with someone else? You'll be really embarrassed. You sound like you are in an unhealthy place as far as this guy is concerned. If you've be calling him and trying to "persuade" him to get back together he obviously doesn't want to be with you. You should spend your energy meeting a new guy that will appreciate you and not waste time on your ex.
Have you read the book "He's just not that into you?" The title sounds rude, but it is a really great book, that tells women from a guy's perspective how things really are.
2007-01-27 08:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to persuade him to take you back? If he does not see the great qualities that you have to offer an man and he dumped you - that should be enough. Let him Go. Not every one who comes into our lives are meant to be in our lives for forever. Some come for a day, a month, a week, a year etc..but not for forever. You need to let him GO. Going to his house will only make you appear desperate and you will be dishonoring yourself.
You deserve a man who will want you for you and all that you have to offer. At this time, he is not the right guy for you. Even though it may hurt, it is for the best. Go out there and meet other people. Going to his house half-naked will not make you look like you like or honor yourself very much
2007-01-27 08:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard but you will have to move on. He obviously has. Look at this scenario:
You get all dressed up and sexy looking. You go to the door expecting him to answer and take you back. But instead some other woman answers the door instead. How would you feel if that happened? You are sounding like a fatal attraction. You need to move on, besides its his lost not yours.
2007-01-27 08:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Johnathan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared!! I wouldn't recommend you pulling that move until both of you are married.
He broke up with you 3 weeks ago and pulling a stunt like that might make you seem very desperate or needy. I'd lay it off for a while and wait probably another month. Sorry:(
2007-01-27 08:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by So... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This screams desperation, so don't. I'm sure there is an obscure law about indecent exposure! Imagine if a new girlfriend opened the door?
You could be regarded as a stalker, so just be cool! Let him realise he has been a prick, and let him make his own mind up.
2007-01-27 08:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm he's your EX... what does that tell you.. I think that stuff only works in the movies.. In the real world I think we call it obsessive... Hey you can try it... who am I to tell you.. but dont be suprised if he puts 911 on speed dial and you end up with a restraining order...
2007-01-27 08:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't do this. Find a new guy and do it to him. Imagine if you did go round to his door and he maybe had company? Would be bit embarassing. Rejection would make you feel **** again too. I'd leave it if i was you. You could always send him a picture text of you dressed up and say "look what you're missing......"
2007-01-27 08:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-15 18:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been calling to persuade him to come back and you are not together, then you will be looking desperate. How humiliating will it be if he says, "go away"?
2007-01-27 08:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both-it would work in that he would probably sh@g you, cos what man turns it down when its on a plate like that, but i dont think it would make him take you back, then you would end up feeling used and he would have a great story to tell his mates. dont do it, have some self respect and just move on.
2007-01-27 08:03:48 · answer #11 · answered by louie3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋