i love him what do i do?

Question

iv been talkin to tyhis guy for about 3 wks and hes absolutly awesome but he sleeps around. he says it's because he's afraid of being hurt like he has bn by all his girlfriends in the past! i desperatly want to tell him i love him and wont never hurt him(i canyt hurt a fly as i hate bein hurt to) but the problem is hes so fit and outta my league and im just dumpy shy me who isnt that gd lookin why would he want me ! what should i do? tell him or not? please help its wrecking me xx

Answer 1

you have a very low opinion of yourself hunni.
first of all you sound like a real nice person ,and you don't want to be with somebody that sleeps around, you deserve alot better.
i know its hard when your feelings are so strong for him but please hunni you deserve to be able to trust your man, and for your man to be open honest and show you 100% respect.
good luck

Answer 2

First of all stop putting yourself down, you have to learn to like yourself. Please don't tell him you love him(sleeping around cos he's afraid of being hurt! Please!)Why would you want him!! If anything it sounds like he's got a good scam going by getting people to feel sorry for him. You might not think so but you sound like a decent nice person, give yourself to someone worthy of you. They r out there. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

And you believe this line of BS? He sleeps around because he wants to sleep around not because he fears anything. His line is just that--a line that he's found is useful for getting into the pants of girls. It's called manipulation. "Your're the ONLY one in the world who can fix me and make me happy." Yeah, and pigs fly without wings. So you're dumpy--but you've got the equipment that will allow you to have sex with him, right? Do what you please but do not under any circumstances believe him. If it's too good to be true, IT AIN'T TRUE.

Answer 4

That's just wacko.... only known him for 3 weeks and it is love...not possilbe... it is infatuation, and in love with the thought of being in love. You also use words like ummmm "desperatly"... that is enough to make any man run in the other direction and really fast too. He wouldn't want you because you are desperate... and you shouldn't be desperate for a man who is a male whore.

Answer 5

you mean on the Internet?
well i would advise you to take it slow, and the way you feel about yourself from what you said means you can be vulnerable from a guy who finds you interesting. the plus point is that he seems to be telling you the bad points about himself!
only time will tell if he is the one for you, so be prepared for the worst, but with fingers crossed he might be the one for youxxx good luck xxx

Answer 6

Pwincess, what do you have to lose?
Just go for it. You know, you have to take risks sometimes, and any failure should be put down to experience.
It's not always the thin and beautiful that are popular. It's the confident and sensitive too.
Go for it babe. You'd be gutted if someone else did when they have less to offer than you.
Good luck.xxx

Answer 7

Hi.

I am a guy and i have this problem with a girl.
What i did was just tell her.
I always thought that she was too good for me but then i found out that maybe she isnt. its all about your self confidence. after i asked her out it gave me the confidence to ask other people out.

Answer 8

Sounds to me like he is a player and like the others here say, who knows what diseases he could be spreading around. Whatever you do, don't tell him you love him, because it isn't love, sounds like lust. It's only been 3 weeks. He doesn't want a real relationship, as hard as it seems, please move on, quickly!!!!!!!! Good Luck...........

Answer 9

Sounds more like you're out of his league.

Answer 10

way would you want a guy that is sleeping around you never know what he might have like STD's or anything like that .....