there are a few things goin on here.... my ex girlfriend (whom i love with all my heart still... but have lost trust in her)left me for another guy Dec. 1st... 2 weeks ago... she told me her and joe broke up... and she regrets ever having the chance to hurt him/me... she sid that she kind of want's to get back togeather.... but right now she just want's to chill back
she's been inviting me over... can't though bcuz of school.... but she's always wanting me to hang with her around lunch/walk home with her & such... does she want me back? will she ever? she said that she sees the mistakes that she's made... and now she's different in that aspect..... does this mean that she's just gone through too many relationships @ once and just wants some alone time.... then she'll come to me when she's ready?!?!?! she has been wanting me to go places and visit w/her 4 a while now.... but today i have a formal... but she seems sad... wut does she want!!! me or no one?!?!
PLZ HELP!!!!
2007-01-27 07:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she is confused, and to make herself feel batter she is trying to get you to hang on, so she feels better. she isn't caring about your feelings now, just her own.
my advice is to tell her that only she can sort out her issues and get her confidence back, and that you will need some time away from her. do not have any contact with her whatsoever for 3 or 4 months at least. give her some time to work out her garbage without dumping it all on you. she already used you, don't let her keep it up.
in the meantime, don't let her tie you down, go out and find some girls who don't have such issues.
2007-01-27 07:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself in the first line....you have lost trust in her. Will you ever get it back...maybe. She'll have to earn it and that usually takes a long time. Why would you want to take someone back who dumped you the minute something better came along. It didn't work out with said other guy and now she's looking for mr reliable. Go and find someone who will like you as much as you like her. Who you can have fun with and rebuild a trust full relationship with someone else.
2007-01-27 07:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason you lost trust in her, right? Whenever that happens, trusting again is earned. How? For one thing, it takes work and help for an untrustworthy person to become trustworthy. When she says she sees the mistakes she's made, it probably means she regrets making them. It also is very likely that she'll make the same mistakes again--without a LOT of work and help. Forewarned is forearmed.
2007-01-27 07:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 03:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I hate to break it to you, but you are a Rebound! And actually the best kind, because you want to actually be with her, so she knows you'll always be there when she needs you.
It's time to stand up for yourself, take back the control and tell her that you don't want to be with her unless she is going to be with you. And put it in her court, but don't play games. She is somewhat mindf*cking you.
If she does want you, then you need to make her make that choice, and be ready to walk away. You never know you might walk right into somebodies arms that wants you and loves you for all the right reasons. Good luck!
2007-01-27 08:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants either to have you back or have you dangling from a string incase no one else comes along. Talk to her and if you can get over the cheating then good luck, but i couldnt, no mater how much i loved someone.
2007-01-27 07:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell? Yer the back up boyfriend... If you can handle that hey go for it.. just dont be suprised when it happens again...
2007-01-27 08:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she wants YOU! Don't go back out with her again. She broke your heart, only god knows if she'll break it again.
2007-01-27 07:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it permanently. She's a game player. You can't move on until she is totally out of your life. She's bad news.
2007-01-27 07:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋