I have been single for a long time, my own choice, to focus on taking care of my child after break-up. I have just started seeing someone, nothing serious as yet as my time isn't very flexible. There are men a plenty to choose from now, is it a change in my attitude that has brought this about? As the playing field was pretty barren before when out before this!
2007-01-27 07:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by kildarababe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its called sods law
2007-01-27 07:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by angus r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've no idea! Not something I've ever noticed. I'm a single mum too to a 3 y.o. and apart from her dad who was a brief fling the playing field has been empty for 15 years! I've not had a man's eye turn to me since the last century! Must be plug ugly or summut!
2007-01-27 07:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Spottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question, have found this myself. My theory is that you become more attractive when you see someone because you're in a constant, heightened sense of anticipation. You know that someone likes you, you feel attractive, sexy and happy and it shows in your general demeanor. Secondly, guys who may have liked you but felt too shy to show it now realise that they can't hang back as they'll be too late and you could go with someone else. OR they feel more confident to show it because if they get rejected they can tell themselves that it's because you're with someone else, rather than it being a flat rejection of them.
2007-01-27 07:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by happynspirited 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I think because, when someone is interested in us it makes us feel good, and we then exude these 'aren't I desirable' feel good vibes. To which men respond with an equally strong sense of 'wow she is one sexy lady I wouldn't mind a piece of that!'
Lap it up, let it boost your confidence. Whatever it is you're doing something right!
;)
2007-01-27 07:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you first break up with someone, you have to recover from that and you really aren't paying attention to those around you you do have to be carful though when first starting to date again so that when you do get into a relationship it is because of something real and not simply an end to lonliness!!
2007-01-27 07:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do find self-reliance and independance, and maturity quite a big turn on. And as for the man situation: You couldn't see for looking!
2007-01-27 07:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are exuding confidence which is quite a good "come on" to guys or maybe you have changed mentally and it shows. Good luck to you.
2007-01-27 07:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Pete W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are not looking for (love), love comes looking for you. It's a fact.
2007-01-27 07:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dno
2007-01-27 07:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋