He promised not to confront her but instead to find out and ask her sometimes,instead he told her what i told him and now my friend is very angry with me.They were planning to get married but my friend told me that she was just after the money .The boyfriend is our family friend and i feel that it was not right for him to go through this.Was whatever i did wrong? I feel so bad that i have lost my friend because of being honest.
What should i do to get my friend back ?
2007-01-27 07:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by baby l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you did is understandable. Tell your friend why you told him, explain her your point of view and your morals. She is obviously a little selfish and maybe she should hear what you have to say. By the way if she truly is a friend, she will come back to you. What you did is fair and maybe you should explain her that morals are important in life. Congrats I'm very proud to hear about people like you. She can't do that for the money...it's so wrong on many levels. She'll come back don't worry.
Good luck
:O)
2007-01-27 07:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a good thing by telling him that she cheated. He deserved to know. I have a feeling that you made a choice about friends when you told the boyfriend that he was being cheated on. Down deep, do you really want her for a friend or are you more comfortable knowing that you did the right thing?
2007-01-27 07:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was not wrong, and it was courageous of you to intervene. You saved your friend's boyfriend from a painful and disastrous marriage that would not have lasted. Sooner or later he would have figured out that she was lying, cheating, and only after his money. It's better that he knows now, rather than finding out too late. As for getting your friend back, you would be better off finding different friends instead.
2007-01-27 07:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by kirsten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have known better than to say anything!!!Obviously he was going to say something to her, he's human isn't he?? Yes it was wrong, but hopefully your friend will get over it, but next itme it is better to stay out of things like that, maybe you could tell her that he kept hounding you about it or something. If he was just after her for the money in the long run he is better off knowing, and she is better off because if you marry some guy for money you won't be very happy
2007-01-27 07:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing u can do, Hopefully she will come around it. And that is a Family Friend and thats not kool. So wait a while and let it seep through her mind and if not just talk to her.
2007-01-27 17:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you probably did the right thing by telling him. He violated your trust by telling her it was you that told him, so I think you need to find some new friends - friends you can trust and who do not cheat on each other!
2007-01-27 07:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I don't believe that this guy should go through what your "friend" had planned for him.
2007-01-27 07:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Yoro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want a friend who is full of dishonesty, not trustworthy and have no integrity.
Why would you want someone like that in your life as a best friend???
2007-01-27 07:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was the one who was dishonest, not you. if she wants to not talk to oyu because you exposed her for what shereally was, then she really doesn't seem like a great friend anyway. you did the right thing. she probably feeks really guilty for what she did to her b/f anyway.
2007-01-27 07:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need that type of friend!! If she would do that to him, who knows what she may do to you. she wasn't a friend or she wouldn't have put you in that position!!
2007-01-27 07:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋