Hey, I acidentally said something to my girlfriend that just slipped out of my mouth, and didnt have any meaning. She took it very personal and now she is mad at me and as sad as can be... I want to stay together, but i keep on telling her that it juss came out of my mouth without any thought and that it didnt mean anything. How can i make her believe what I am telling her is true and how can i get her to forgive me?
2007-01-27 07:35:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm not sure how old you are and that really depends on what will work but here are some of my suggestions. Tell her that you're truly sorry and that you didn't mean to say what you said. Let her know that you were maybe a little upset about something else and you just took your anger out on her because we usually do take our anger out on those we love the most. If she continues to be mad at you, perhaps you should write her a letter and tell her how you really feel about her. Let her know that you really love her and are attracted to her and let her know that you only want to be with her and keep apologizing. Learn from your mistake and don't do it again! Woman are sensitive and usually it takes us a while to forgive but if we don't feel you're serious, we're just going to get even more mad at you.
Delivering flowers is always a plus too!
Good luck and I hope your girl forgives you!
2007-01-27 07:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you said. If you said something hurtful then you are going to get on your knees and beg for forgiveness. Tell her that you are human being like everyone else and makes mistakes. Tell her that you love her very much and how you can atone for the mistake. If after all that she is still mad - just step back and let her decide when she wants to forgive you.
2007-01-27 15:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i dont know what it is that you said to her so this is a hard one to answer but the best way to make it up to her is to do something special for her i mean if she really loves you then she will forgive you but you need to give her time if what u said hurt her that bad then it must have been bad but just be there for her and keep letting her know that u did not mean it and let her know how much you really do love her and stuff like that we stay mad but as women we dont stay mad forever so just be patient and try and be there for her no matter what u are only human and we all make mistakes
2007-01-27 15:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her forgive you. Forgiveness must come from her. All you can do is your best. Might be a good glance into what the relationship will be like in the future, especially if you are genuinely expressing an apology.
2007-01-27 15:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Oh Suhnny Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you make her believe? those are interesting words. It sounds like you really may have meant it! sometimes people repress things and when they are angry they say them foolishly. First thing is that you really need to make peace with yourself. Know without a doubt that you did not mean that and it you did figure out why and resolve those issues. As far as you gf is concerned let her know that you love her and that you never meant to hurt her and cant stand to see her sad because of your stupidity.You have to lose the pride and humble your self.
2007-01-27 15:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you as the girl that i am you really screwed up so buy her some roses and choclates or roses and write a poem and in the future watch what you say and if you have t then buy roses and choclates with a poem to tie it up.
2007-01-27 15:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by bbjbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do if she is determined to not forgive. You also MUST be sincere and not flip in any way. Remind her that the Lord's prayer instructs us to forgive those who trespass against us. Notice it does not say "forget".
2007-01-27 15:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some romantic gestures, flowers, cook her a meal, basicaly show her you are really sory and you didnt mean what you said. Also, if it hurt her that much, never say it again.
2007-01-27 15:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her calmly, but as remorseful as you sound right now. try to flow with her anger and sadness and try listen to her as much as you talk to her. maybe you can tell her what caused you to say what you said, because words can kill. i know, sometimes, stuff just slip out your mouth and you dont even mean it. good luck.
2007-01-27 15:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her sumtin. Call her a lot so she sees u care. Not every 5 min. thou, she might tink thats annoying. Tell her ur sorry a million times!
2007-01-27 15:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋