This girl was a little shy according to her friend that told me to ask her out. Her friend told me she really likes me. Now i asked her out and she was waiting cause i said... so when are we gonna go out and she said when are you gonna take me out. We went out and had a great time. I paid for dinner then we went back to my crib. We kissed at the end. Then week later she says she's not ready for a relationship and she would tell me when but she's not sure when that is. Keep in mind we both go to same college. She said she doesn't want to feel rushed...You think it's true or just Bull crap.
2007-01-27 07:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is not ready for a relationship with you and you should trust what she says. What gives you the thought that she was going to fall into your arms once you go out. I think y ou need to be honest with yourself as she is honest with you. She had a good time with you, she found out something that she is not so sure about with you. So you need to respect her wishes as she is single and she may like to have her freedom and not be controlled by a guy like you. You sound very controlling and over bearing. That is how I see it, you need to understand that she is an individual and has likes and dislikes. Just one date doesn't make it OK for you to assume you have to have a relationship with her. It was a date and that is all it was. Grow up and look else where and relax, you can't control everyone. Let her do as she pleases and look for someone else that wants to be controlled by you. Better yet, get some counseling about your demeanor.
2007-01-27 08:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldnt of taken her to ur crib on the first date.maybe u 2 should of went to the play pen lol,,no im kidding i think maybe she isnt as mature as u all u did was kiss right?i think shes scared find a new girl to take to the crib,find another chick ...
2007-01-27 15:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she just had a really bad relationship and wants 2 take it slow. I bet she really likes u. Ask her out again.
2007-01-27 15:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bull crap!!! Sorry but that is a lame excuse for breaking it off with someone.
2007-01-27 15:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by justice_is_hott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry frind it is typical line to get u away... responce is quiet simple say that you agree with her needing some time and in you opinion you had a great time with her... but thier was no chemistry...
2007-01-27 15:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to much drama
2007-01-27 15:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by GrassRootsRabbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋