Im a guy. Like a girl. wanna ask her out...suggestions please!?

Question

wa shud i say to her. i no alot of you will say just go straight to the point and say it, but thats easier said than done.

Shud i get into conversation with her, as we talk quite often, and just slip it in??

need help hence my name (unluckyinlove)

Answer 1

Since you are nervous... try to make it a CASUAL group event. I enjoy playing cards, games, things like that - where the more people you have involved the better.

Therefore, I would have to say - get a group of people together and play games - make sure you are playing in the same game with her - and it will take a lot of the pressure off!

You will also get a chance to get to know her without the pressure of asking all the questions!

Answer 2

Yes you heart is beating fast and you are very nerves. No one like to be turn down. You are normal about this. But you have to take the chance or you will never know the real out come of your problem of fear. You can start out easily by just saying hi. She will actually feel the same way about you in most cases. If she says hi back then tell her your name if she doesn't already know it. Talk to her about her favorite subjects, groups, dance, or songs. As the conversation goes on and you get a good feeling about her and her answers then tell her you would like to go to "what ever" a walk, dance, community organization, or something that will have people around. Ask her if she be interested in going alone with you. Yes easier said than asked for sure but you have to take the chance and go for it. It is your responsibility to your future and life. Your whole success of life rides on you doing just this... Asking her out. You will be successful. You are a man, and you like this girl and you need to know she likes you. Just relax and go for it. Just start by saying Hi. Good Luck

Answer 3

Yes talk to her about something like about relationships that way she won't fall out of her chair in shock from a big switch in conversations or anything and just slip the question in~Good Luck

Answer 4

first of all you need to find out if she likes you in that way, and you can do so by the types of conversations that you have. You don't need to ask her out, if your going to get coffee ask her if she wants to go with you. If your going to get lunch say "i'm going to subway wanna come?"
keep it casual. the last thing you wanna do is ask her out when she thought she had just made a friend with you. cause then it would be awkward for the both of you. Treat her like you were already dating...but don't overdo it. then when you don't expect it, if shes interested..you'll wake up and realize that you guys are really dating! =) trust me i'm a chick and if your unlucky in love then asking someone out on a date can be a turn off. so watch it.

Answer 5

Get into conversation with her, but the topic has to be about you being attacted to her. Tell her you want to be more than friends with her- that's a huuuge hint- and then ask her out. Or maybe you could have an irrelevant conversation but be very flirtatious. Either way, have fun and good luck!

Answer 6

dear unlucky in love,

if you two are already friends you have a better chance than most of the guys that want her. most likley she feels the same way and is wondering why you havent asked her yet. you need to ask her soon, being a girl i know how we are and if you wate to long she will loose intrest and go else where. try this, tell her how you feel first, girls like it when men get to the womans emotional level. then once you are exposed tell her that you have feelings for her. good luck unlucky!

Answer 7

This is my style, so it might not work for everyone:

Assuming you want to go out to eat:

"Man, I could really go for some *insert food you like that most people don't*"
a. "Eww"
"Well, what do you like to eat?"
b. "Mmm!"
"Wow, not many people like *that food*."

"Well it's a good thing I didn't ask you if you wanted to go out and get some *food that most people like*, since you're probably not into that."

a. "No, I do like that!"
"Nah, I don't believe it. Really? Well, prove it. How about Friday at 7?"

b. "You're right, I don't like that."
Unless she seems obviously put off by the idea of going out with you:
"Well, were would you go? Hmm, that does sound good. Now I'm craving that! I don't suppose you would go with me to get some sometime? Say, Friday at 7?"

Answer 8

Change your name!
In your conversations have you found out what your friend enjoys? have you made the effort to share something new like
a restaurant ? (hint : ask her out to lunch , maybe a smoothie
bar, in other words keep it simple allow her to get to know you
without her feeling the pressure of dating and you will not feel rejected.

Answer 9

give her a rose with a small note saying, "I know right now we are friends and i dont want to do or say anything that will jeopardize that, but i do like you a lot and was wondering if maybe we can go out sometime and talk about maybe taking our relationship to the next step, if thats ok with you please let me know, if not thats ok, i cherish our friendship as is, if your not ready" sincerely(then write your name), Just a thought. good luck

Answer 10

It took me one year of asking my wide out on a date for her to go out with me. There are a couple of different routes you could take. First is, jelousy, make her think you have another girl but that girl treats you like ****. Another way is to ask and ask and ask. and then if all else fails get her drunk and try a move on her.