i need help. i've been going out w/this guy for about two months already, even though we both liked each other way before but just never said it. i was so sure he was the one i loved. everything seemed perfect until my old crush came back. i had liked him for 2 whole years but he moved away. he came back and he made things so confusing. my old feelings came back and i dont know what to do. it was more than a crush but what am i supposed to do now. i told my boyfriend i loved him he said he wanted to be with me forever that i was the perfect one for him and ithought so too until he returned. idk what to do now? my boyfriend has noticed thats something is wrong since he came back.. but he doesnt know hes back or why it is that ive been acting strangely. i just blame it on a headache and say im not feeling good but its just my feelings inside all i think about is him, the one i love, the one who returned.
2007-01-27 07:08:28 · 18 answers · asked by Lorena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend time with both of them, wait for couple of months, see whoz caring u a lot...u will get the answer..share life with him..dats it!
2007-01-27 07:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest, but very few guys will come back afterwards, basically what you are saying to him is I love someone else who I have never been with, more than you, boyfriend. If you tell him you are in love or have feelings for someone else, I can guarantee tat this wil be the end of the realtionship you have now, no-one wants to be second best, but it is better to do that than lie or cheat.
2007-01-27 15:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your old crush had left you even though you had been together for 2 years.... that’s warning signs just there already. Now that you have a new relationship that you are happy in, don’t jeopardize it. The old crush left you once... what is the guarantee that he wont leave you again. I think you have something good going on with this new guy... don’t ruin in. forget the old crush. What you need is right with you. Be happy and keep smiling :)
2007-01-27 15:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a hard situation because i have been on the recieving end of this. The girl i dated had the same problem. Try talking to your current boyfriend if he really loves you he will understand. Also if your ex-boyfriend askes you out DON'T SAY NO!!! If you really have feelings for him explane the situation to him. But make sure you talk to your current boyfriend FIRST!! It will suck if he finds it out from someone else. Hope all goes well!!
2007-01-27 15:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by ilikelivinglife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way out if honesty. Tell him you really care about him, but you are confused because someone from your past has come back. But then again, it all depends on whether the person has just come back, or if they are pursuing you. If they no longer show any interest in you, then you're just going to have to get over it. Life is too short.. love the one you have.
2007-01-27 15:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you choose to do, be more than sure that your decision will be worth it. If you really love this boy who has returned, and he wants to be with you also, and you're sure that w/ him you'll be happier than you are now and that things will be okay w/o your current bf, then choose him. But don't break up with your current bf for the other guy, then have that other guy not want to be with you, cuz then its a loose loose situation. Use your head, think b4 you act, and choose whoever you love more.
2007-01-27 15:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you're thinking about the other guy then you are not in a strong enough relationship for it to last and your bf isnt the one for you. I know that my bf is the one for me cause even if it was a choice between him and Johnny Depp I'd pick him.
2007-01-27 15:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel and whats going on since he lft.
The truth will make you free.
2007-01-27 15:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should talk to ur bf about it. then u may need to take some time off from thr relationship so u will c what u realy need
2007-01-27 15:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
daaang dis is like TV or something.........go wit da one dat came back from where ever he came back from...usualy in shows like dat da perfect one is the guy who came back
2007-01-27 15:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋