Even though the couple has already talked before on the phone but never met each other in person and when they decide to see each other because they liked each other so much even though when they came into eye to eye contact it was simply irresistable attraction and speechless with no regrets the simple first date turned out to be a date in which seem as they had been with each other before
2007-01-27 06:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by happy holidays 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remeber this couple has talked for a while with each other and we due respect but when they saw each other for the first time it was an instant connection they didnt even plan this to happen but it happened with out even being ready
2007-01-27 07:08:19 · update #1
they had planned to go out in a date the girl had met this guy from a good friend in which her boy friend are best friends with this guy and this girls friend insisted for them to see each other and get to know each other and they did by the phone first and talked about everything with due respect but a night before they decided to see each other after late night working the guy had to call her and ask her out for a coffee and she agreed to the invitation and suprisling enough they saw each other and the attraction was a good has the emotional feelings
2007-01-27 07:15:34 · update #2
Hell yes , life's too short, go for it, just use safe sex .
2007-01-27 06:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precisely because of what you have just said, it is NOT a good idea at all! It gives a lot of bad impression and raises a lot of questions about each other. What and why is the hurry?
It would have been a little bit different matter, if the two had met face to face before the dating. But the way you have described them, it can leave a bad impression on either or both of them!
I sincerely hope that they will be able to reassure each other and develope their love into a full blooming and everlalsting happiness. Its called LOVE at the FIRST SIGHT!
All the best!
2007-01-27 15:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way sex is going to happen on the first date is if the couple is not concerned with a long term relationship. Everything is better if you build up a strong desire to compliment the way you feel for someone by giving completely of yourself to the other....this will only occur after the couple has spend enough time with each--it can't be done in a course of a few hours! Of course, each couple is different and so each will decide to have sex when it is best for them.
2007-01-27 15:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll admit, I've done this before. A few times. Blind date sort of things...got caught up in the heat of the moment. 2 out of 3 times I've regretted it out afterwards. I would recommend that you wait until at least the 3rd date (that seems to be the gold standard these days). Sex on the first makes you and him both look easy and cheap. It's also something that you might be ashamed to tell your friends about.
Not to mention the risk of stds, since you don't know this person.
2007-01-27 14:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is totally up to u and how u feel about it. Some people think that having sex on the first date is wrong others think it's normal. If u want to do it go for it but if ur not sure then don't do it cuz maybe later on u will regret it.
2007-01-27 15:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex on the first date is never the right thing to do. The problem today is most people think with their bodies and not with their hearts and minds. Never let your body tell you what you know is the right thing to do which is to get to know the person first. You have no idea who he or she has been with before you or what kind of personality he or she has. People think their are too many diseases out there that can kill you, protection or not. There are to many people out there with personality disorders who are just waiting to get you alone and help you meet your maker. Just use common sense and think with your mind.
2007-01-27 15:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its me then you should do it. If not then hell naw. Just joking. Sex is a very special event between 2 ppl. Just remember when you say yes, I will have sex with you, just remember that you are willing to be with that person for at least the next 18 years or this person could be the one that gives you a something you can't get rid of until you die or both.
2007-01-27 15:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by slbeezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both totally honest and the feeling was the same for both of you, who else matters anywy. Each relationship is different. it sounds as if you have known eachother for years even if you had not met. you will know what i mean. even maybe in a previous life. just relish being precious to another and go forward. Just stay honest in your feelings. Mostly with yourself and you will be fine?
2007-01-27 15:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by diva44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!! Have a little self respect for yourself, you know what they say, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free!!!! Just take it slow, when the time is right it will happen. We are not animals, humans can control themselves. Or at least they should be able to!
2007-01-27 15:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never have sex on the first date. Just not my style. But then again I want to wait until im married and im only 16
2007-01-27 14:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hello!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my personal opinio sex is not good on the first date ,but if you want to do it for fun then go ahead it's your life live it the way you like the best.
2007-01-27 14:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by FireStone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋