Ok how many guys like tomboys. I am a country girl, rodeo girl, army, farm, paintball lovin, camping, playing poker, all kinds of things, kind of girl. But sometime like to be girly. I'll get all dressed up and have some fun just alone in the bed room. I'll even get dressed up and go to the movies, or to dinner, or some place like that. Every time I date a guy they tell me I'm to boyish, and/or to wild one even said I was to much fun.
I'm just about ready to give up on guy and dating all together.
Please Help
2007-01-27 06:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound great just like you are, don't you dare change for anyone, and you will meet that guy that will like everything about you just the way it is...
we all have qualities that we are not proud of, or let's put it in another way, qualities that are not desired by most guys, but that does not mean we have to change, no one is perfect, neither is the guy you will hook up with later! but you'll learn to love the person in front of you no matter what; when it is the right person...
good luck
2007-02-04 05:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys that like a tomboy, I am one of them also, it depends on what you are looking for and if you do dressup and go out good for you. That will get attention, but just be upfront and say I am a bit tomboyish does this bother you, you know jean and tshirt thing. A lot of guys like this, it makes them your buddy, their friend and their mate all in one. Don't change who you are for anyone, you are who you are an that takes a lot of gutts, you will find someone when you are not looking Take care Heather
2007-02-04 05:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a very insecure ego. Not all, but most of them. In general most men are suckers for the feminine type that allows them to feel like "THE MAN". I would say it depends on the man and what his preferences are. I think the best is to be feminine but strong. Meaning feminine on the outside, but capable and strong on the inside.
2007-01-27 06:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Fellina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem with you at all. I actually can relate because I am really athletic and tomboyish too. You just need to find the right guy. Those guys that think you're too boyish are just insecure of themselves and just jealous because you are better than they are. You'll find mister right, just keep looking!
2007-01-27 06:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by taurusgal89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are heterosexual and prefer girls to look like girls and to act like girls.
Picture of ideal girl would be something like long hair, natural breasts, skirt or dress, clean shaved legs and any trace of moustache removed. Not too pushy.
If you want to turn a guy off, the recipe is short hair, traces of moustache, molded or padded bra, jeans or pants, hairy legs, pushy nature. In other words, like a guy in drag.
2007-02-02 07:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personaly like a balence my GF is perfect for me in shes into some of the same stuff i am she loves the WWE and so do i she loves to party and so do i as long as im the one driveing ppl home couse i never drink at partys of course :) but it basicly depends on the guys
2007-02-04 05:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Deshawn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to give up guys, but you may want to try being open to girls as well. who knows? ok anyways, sometimes guys just like to be out with the guys and not bring along the girl even if she is like one of the guys. even though you may not realize it, guys act differently when theres all guys, just like girls act different when its all girls. when its all guys, they dont talk about feelings. just not what we do. sometimes its a nice thing not to have to think about that ur thinking. it sounds like you may not be letting them have their own thing where they dont have to worry about anything. also, sometimes guys like being able to choose between goin out with his girl or goin with the guys. when you are hanging out with him with the guys, then there isnt so much as a difference so its like every weekends the same. best advice i can give you is give him some space every once in awhile where he can just go with his crew and you can chill with ur girlies.
2007-01-27 07:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by slightly confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are crazy. I think tomboys are very attractive as long as they aren't butch and muscles. It gives you a lot in common with guys. And honestly a guy said you were too much fun??? Is that possible?
2007-01-27 06:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just cannot be better than him at all of that. thats all. I love to hunt, and be outdoors... I've been hunting since I could walk to the blind w/my dad, and have been target shooting since I was of legal age to shoot a gun, but I cannot rub it in when i'm w/ my boyfriend... god forbid his gf be a better hunter than he. Men are supposed to be hunters & provide for their family... men have to put dinner on the tabe, not women - this is how men think. Men love girls who are interested in the same stuff as them, as long as they aren't better & steal the spotlight.
2007-01-27 07:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i really don't know but i don't think they want a girl to dress like a boy, i do all kinds of things that you do but i don't dress or act like a tom boy. I do what i want.
2007-01-27 06:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋