i am almost 13 and i have my first boyfriend... we watched a movie and he put his arm around me... we were walking along and he tried to get me to hold his hand but i flipped out and started shaking really hard and did nothing, and now i think he is mad at me. I would have held his hand the next day but i am still freaked out. I am trying out for the basketball team so i can't ride the bus with him anymore :(. I am really hoping that i don't make the team now....... He seems really sad now... what should i do? I am totally lost..
2007-01-27 06:41:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well call him and tell him that you were just a little nervouse and that you still really like him. He should understand but if he doesnt than you shold just dump him tell him it is going way to fast.
2007-01-27 06:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time i held a guys hand i was so nervous..but now its natural for me to hold a guys hand...but dont rush into anything until you are ready....If he is mad at you thats just ungrateful and he should be happy for you and your basketball team try-outs and understand that you want to be on that team so have fun and GOOD LUCK IN BASKETBALL
2007-01-27 06:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants attention, but you're still a child, try to be "friends"- don't get too romantic, you don't wanna mess up your future-good luck.
2007-01-27 06:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..... if you like him quit the b-ball team but if you don't like him alot don't do it.
back to the holding hands thing, don't shake they think thats kinda akward...... just act normal likes it's all cool.
2007-01-27 06:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~pay~pay~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋